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Towards the end of April, I had enough of my old laptop. It was too slow. It takes almost half an hour for it to start and it’s just started to annoy me. I started looking for a cheap laptop online and the new Macbook Neo caught my eye. However, the price range (albeit way cheaper than other Macbooks) still put me off. I researched for a secondhand alternative and I found one at the Back Market…

I had a moment of “momnesia” last Wednesday. I went out with the baby for our usual “Aldi” run and after perusing the special buy section of the supermarket, I decided that I deserved a Mcdonald’s breakfast meal for resisting the urge to buy a waddling pool for my son. After Mcdonald’s we walked home and as soon as we hit our doorstep I realised my giant mistake. I forgot my keys inside the…

Writing Time: 0645 – My son is still sleeping! Yay! I finally gave in and purchased a laptop. My old one is slow as snail and I can’t do anything. I have many projects in my mind that needs to be done. I don’t know why I do considering my hands are full with the little one at the moment. Anyway, I was originally going to get the new Macbook Neo, but the cost was holding me back. I researched…

Writing time: 0320, just finished nursing my baby. It’s been a while since I last wrote here, the months flew so quickly! Where did time go?!? Looking back, the last three months have been busy. On the brighter side, we are now all sleeping better. My little one turned 6 months and it’s a whole new world of weaning and teething. When I first met my neighbour she said sleep will get better by 6…

Writing time: 0330- just finished pumping milk. My baby is still sleeping and this is the first time since he turned 4 months that I haven’t woken up at 2am to feed him. 🤫 Our local hospital doesn’t have an A&E it’s been scrapped for a while (way before we moved here), so, when our baby had some bowel issues, we had to call 111 and we were booked an appointment to see the GP at the urgent care…

Writing time: 0530 am. Baby just fell asleep after a major meltdown and because mama can’t figure out what he wants. 😅 I haven’t written in a while. My baby is now 4 months old. He started rolling to his tummy about 2 weeks ago, and has been very wiggly at the changing table. He now weighs 5.8kg, I was happy about it until the health visitor said that my baby is on the 9th percentile…meaning his…

Writing time 0557: Baby is asleep in my arms after multiple failed transfer attempts. 😅 First of all, Happy New Year! I pray that this year will be kinder to us this time. 🙏🙏🙏 Last year was difficult. We suffered a great loss and its impact on our family will be felt for years. Despite the pain and grief, we also experienced joy and great love when we welcomed our son in September. My family…

Writing time: 0900 am. Baby fast asleep in my arms..still unwilling to sleep on his cot. 😅 As we all know well, December can be brutal in our pockets. It is especially hard when you’re on Maternity Leave as your pay is significantly reduced. I have been looking for means to reduce my expenses, even if it’s a small change. I started with my mobile plan. I am already paying a small amount for a…

I know, completely different from what I normally write about these days. However, while doom scrolling on Facebook at 5am, I saw a post in our town’s local Facebook group about how irresponsible it is for the NHS doctors to strike right now. Well, here’s my response: What is irresponsible is for these trained doctors not getting the compensation they deserve for working long hours to SAVE human…

0523: trying to get the baby to sleep in the bassinet, but no luck.😅 I am struggling with my little one’s sleep lately. He doesn’t want to be in the bassinet. When I successfully transfer him on his bed, he would only sleep for 15-20min. I am so tired holding him while he sleeps because I haven’t had much sleep either. However, this is the only way he can get some decent sleep. Anyway, staying…

Writing time: 0519. My baby is sleeping soundly in my arms, he’s going through another growth spurt and is not happy to sleep in his bassinet. 😅 Babies do grow so fast. My little one’s newborn clothes are now too small for him to wear. He’s in this awkward in-between phase where the newborn clothes are too small and the 3-6 months clothes are too big. I’ve received so much clothes from my sister…

Writing time: 0616 my baby in my arms as he doesn’t want to sleep in the bassinet. I gave up after 2 failed transfers. I stalked our IG account letmehavesomeofthat and I may be hormonal, but looking through all our pictures and videos made me a bit emotional. What a life we’ve lived for the past 5 years since I met my husband. From our early food trip/dates to our engagement upto our child being…

Writing time; 0350, baby just fell asleep after a poonami. 😅 My family is visiting from America, so, it has been a busy week. If you live in the UK, it has been cold and wet lately and it’s not the kind of weather my family is used to. My mother wore several layers of clothes under her coat. 🤣 Day out in London Speaking of my mother, I am truly grateful that she’s given this second chance in…

My baby smiled at me for the first time yesterday and I am over the moon. Then he was fussy the rest of the day. 🤣 Ah, the joys of parenthood. ❤️ Novel

Writing time: 0400 after I finished expressing some milk for my little one. Woke up at 0245 today and found a surprise waiting for me… My husband, despite how busy and exhausted he is, he managed to still buy me a present. He’s amazing. 😍 I’m a year older and priorities have shifted since I gave birth to my son. I only wish for my family to be happy, healthy and safe. It would be nice to be…

Writing time: 0230: My little one is sleeping (but still grunting every now and then), he’s been sleeping a bit longer through the night….we’re getting there I think. 🤞🤞 So, apps. Why are they important? They keep you sane. Like any other first time moms, I Google a lot of my symptoms. To make it easy for us women, there are apps that has all the information you might be looking for in one app.…

My baby doesn’t want to be put down on his bassinet. We’re doing a lot of contact napping lately. Weird enough, he sleeps long on the bassinet when his dad puts him down for the night. It’s when my shift starts that he starts hating the bassinet. Not sure what I’m doing wrong. 😅 Anyway, I find contact napping expensive! When the baby is asleep, Mama keeps doom scrolling or online shopping. I bet…