Aspiring Dilf

I’ve been to a few now, but not a ton. And it depends! Honestly word of mouth is the best way in my opinion because hopefully it’s someone you know so you can trust that they’re giving a good recommendation!

I think at the time I was living in LA and didn’t have friends that went to them, so I literally googled and looked on sniffies until I found one that filtered through people to make sure it was a good vibe lol. And by filtering through people it wasn’t to judge by attractiveness or anything, but to make sure people weren’t looking for a hard drug experience (that’s not what this was at all). I opted to go to this specific one for my first orgy because I felt safer knowing it wasn’t a hard drug zone, and they had rules laid out that clearly showed they wanted to keep things respectful and safe for everyone involved!

Well it’s hard to pick one time, because my dick has definitely led me into situations my brain wouldn’t have more than once 💀😅

In LA I’d heard about this cruising spot in a parking lot that was in such a busy area I thought it couldn’t possibly be true. I had vocal lessons in the area at the time so after a lesson I just walked a few blocks and found the parking lot with the intention to “just see”.

I noticed there were a ton of parked cars and even a few guys outside of them, and then I finally realized the cruising was happening right in front of me IN the cars and the guys on the outside were watching 👀

I then have caught the eye of this daddy in this Range Rover and he nodded for me to hop in his passenger seat… I’m not going to lie I hesitated for a second out of anxiety and fear, but I pushed through and did it for the love of an experience/fantasy moment 🤤

Nope! One partner is older than me and the other is younger, both by 3 years coincidentally! 😝

There’s been a few romantic things! One instance that comes to mind is we rented an air bnb that wasn’t too far from home, but far enough of a drive to be a fun little trip together. Having a weekend of a cute new space with a hot tub and getting alone time together (we have a roommmate in our house) really was a treat 🥰 and the view we had from far out in the country was gorgeous to watch the sunset and rise at!

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Thank you so so much! 🥰

Ooh great question! When I was still living in Palm Springs we planned for them to visit to celebrate one of their birthdays, and unfortunately birthday boy had his appendix burst 4 days before they flew in 😬 (not the good memorable part lol).

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This weekend I celebrated my 2 year anniversary as a very happy throuple with my partners! 💕

Finding myself in a poly relationship, much less a throuple, was never something I expected or envisioned for myself. Not until I met my college best friend’s (who I definitely wasn’t unknowingly crushing over for years) partner, and immediately began falling for him too. The way that all 3 of us mesh so well together and have such strong chemistry completely opened my eyes to the limitations that had been set on myself: both by the society I grew up in and, unintentionally, by my own self.

In the beginning there was a lot of fear on my end about jealousy, dynamics, and a serious anxiety involving FOMO if my partners did something together without me which was inevitable (the first 6 months of our relationship was long distance with them living together and me being in CA). Thankfully, through communication and transparency, I’m happy to say I’ve never been happier!

I know it isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, nor would we tell you our relationship dynamic is for everyone, but it works for us and I’m so happy 2 years have already flown by! My partners have loved me so tenderly, supported me unwaveringly, and have encouraged me to be my most genuine, silly, even slutty & most importantly authentic self at all times, and I’m eternally grateful for it.

You’re so so kind and I greatly appreciate it 🙈😘