why does everyone on tumblr love weepingdog when they were genuinely passive aggressive or just plain rude behind the scenes sometimes hello. yes this is a call out post im tired of everyone worshipping them or whatever. unfortunately ive lost a lot of evidence but i can try to explain some the best that i can???
1. snarl has been blatantly disrespectful to one of my partners when they mentioned they were scared of a storm (i believe it was, yet i cant exactly remember what they said). they completely dismissed what my partner was feeling when he mentioned how he felt about the storm.
2. snarl, as you can see in one of the screenshots, has called one of my partners a freak before in a tone they (my partner) felt was borderline derogatory
3. snarl has before, once again seen in the screenshot above, has called my friends "weird" or "infuriating" when most of them havent even done anything wrong (i dont even know what would make them think this if im honest, but my memory is extremely vague)
4. in the last screenshot, you can see me and snarl talking about writing dialogue. i had been roleplaying with a person in pms on a roleplay blog and neither of us were using quotation marks for dialogue, but then we decided to add a bit of narration, but i didnt want to use quotations for dialogue since we hadnt before and it would mess with the "flow" we had (i am very big about order and things, and i believe is one of my symptoms of autism), so i decided that i should ask snarl for advice on what me and my rp partner could do instead. however, in the conversation i felt like snarl wasnt understanding and wasnt even trying to put themselves in my shoes. I told them blatantly that using quotation marks kind of distressed me because it would mess up what we had before when we werent using quotations. now, im not sure if this is truly evidence or not, but i feel like it sort of counts at least.
I cant remember a lot due to my bad memory, but i can certainly tell you that, while i was still friends with snarl, many of my other friends told me often that they seemed toxic. while at the time i knew this could have been true, i was extremely fixated on them and struggled to let go of them because of that, even when they were rude or disrespectful or made me feel bad (even if they didnt know it).
This is probably shit out of a butt, but i just thought i would share my thoughts. weepingdog has made other people uncomfortable as well. not just me, but both of my partners (before we were even dating, mind you). if anyone has had similar experiences, please let me know, i have very little evidence for my argument as of right now. I'll be looking for more after this is posted.
p.s., i would like to mention that im not a perfect person and have also made mistakes, especially during my relationship with snarl. but i just felt that it is important for people to know that this person has also made many other people upset, not just me. i could be totally dramatic, but i believe im not the only one who has a problem with weepingdog. i also do not hope for a lot of drama over this, so please try to keep any comment or replies tame and polite, whether you agree or disagree with me or whoever else.