You know, I often read that the INFJ is a “people pleaser”. 

Personnally I don’t really like that term. Because it sounds like we’re deceptive and tend to do things just to please people. Which we do not. We actually hate real people pleasers.

It’s more like we adapt our personnality according to the people we’re with. We won’t drastically change who we are but we will just act the way that will make the people around us comfortable. 

I guess it’s one way for us to “fit in”. 

Sometimes, that side of my personnality makes me feel a bit anxious. I guess I’m afraid people will think I’m being hypocritical while I’m just trying my best. 

And sometimes I feel lost because I start wondering which one is my real personnality… that’s why I need some alone time to find myself back.

Them: You're such a nice person!