do you wish you could just touch her?

Who is she?

Where’s her Vogue spread?

I honestly have no aspirations anymore other than i want to be able to do my silly little hobbies, treat myself every now and then and love my friends and my cats

so basically.. i’ve spoken on and off about the abuse i went through while dating somebody in this fandom and why i’m uncomfortable being friends or mutuals with people who still support or follow her. this is so, so terrifying to do but i’m finally going into detail and speaking about what i went through and naming my abuser. i feel that this is conducive to me being able to move on and begin existing outside of the sphere of being a victim, i’m coming forward with my side of a 5 year long relationship where i was isolated and manipulated among other things. here is a piece that i’ve written out that documents some, nowhere near all, all of the mistreatment.

Taylor talking to the crowd before ‘All You Had To Do Was Stay’ in Manchester, UK 06/24/15