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This may seem like a wild concept but you’re allowed to be angry about what happened to you and you’re under no obligation to forgive anyone

Absolutely. Fuck those new age motherfuckers and those Oprah show assholes who claim that the ONLY way to heal is to forgive your abusers. Fuck that noise and fuck that shit. There’s a reason you’re angry! Write about it, talk about it, do something other than chastise yourself for feeling angry. If anything, forgive yourself for feeling angry. You’ve earned the right to be angry.

I love myself enough to let whoever go

I know and deeply feel this. And that distinction between knowing and feeling, matters enormously...

May you never abandon yourself again, especially for what isn’t choosing you.