normal woman with a normal amount of hobbies

no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever

really galling amount of people misinterpreting this post so i'd like to clarify. i'm saying that when discussions about patriarchal beauty standards and the way women are heavily shamed and coerced into eschewing their own natural state of being (hairy) are occurring, it is unhelpful (AT BEST) to interrupt and say that the reason YOU remove the hair from your body is because of sensory issues. that's not what we're talking about. stop asking for validation for doing something that society at large wants you to do. stop derailing the conversation because you feel uncomfortable about being made aware that you, for whatever reason it is, adhere to harmful, unfair and ridiculous beauty standards. you're stepping into the middle of an important conversation that needs to be had and making it all about you. shut the fuck up forever.

also quite frankly i think a lot less people would experience sensory issues if they let their hair grow out so that it isn't bristly and rough and irritating. and i cannot help but wonder why these sensory issues aren't as predominant in men. maybe you're uncomfortable with the hair on your body because you've been taught to be uncomfortable with it. just a thought.

mind you i’m doing this shit while employed. never give up

Everyone is bloomscrolling in my beautiful internet garden

ban men's sports i have seen enough

:/

everyone eat more vegetables NOW!!! and mention the last vegetable you ate in the tags so we're all on the buddy system. I'll start: bok choy

Let go of the idea that diy will inherently look shit. All your clothes are handmade you just don't see the people doing it.

”there’s no glory in suffering” and “sometimes the effort is the point” are two ideas that co-exist but god damn if I can ever tell when’s the time for which

one of the biggest risk factors for ptsd (which includes symptoms like uncontrolled, pathological levels of anger) is not feeling supported or believed by those around you or like you have to keep the trauma a secret etc this is probably why rape victims have exponentially higher rates of ptsd than say, natural disaster victims. “Don’t be too upset because the real important thing to remember is that your abuser is human too and also there’s a good chance you’re lying for attention and money” is certainly not the mindset that will set people on the road to healing

the bus is never going to come because im a bad person