Elena was never going to tell Stefan the truth about her and Damon in season 4........ Hold on let me cook.
Elena cheated on Stefan back in the season 2 finale with Damon, and if I stand correct, she NEVER told him that.
Elena said, "I need some time to tell him." Girl, There was never going to be a right time or place to tell your ex-boyfriend that you slept with his brother immediately after you both broke up. Stefan's heart was going to break regardless. He said himself in season 4, "Talk about what? How many ways are there for you to rip my heart out?" He also asked, "Are you sorry that it happened or that I found out?"
He was hurt, and this would remain true regardless of whether the information came from her, Damon, or both of them.
As much as I used to dislike Caroline for telling Stefan that information, I realized that, at that point in the series, she and Stefan were better friends than she was with Elena. Furthermore, Damon abused Caroline, and while Klaus certainly put Elena through a lot of trauma, Caroline always addressed Klaus's wrongdoings and told him he was in the wrong. There is a significant difference between hooking up with someone once and entering into a relationship with a man who abused your best friends.





