Bisexual Female Desister

You are skating on thin ice with these communities. Being told that if you don't get medical intervention, you will die. Delving into self-harm. Hypersexualizing. Burying your same sex attraction like it's something to be ashamed of. The possibility of causing damage to your body through binding. Losing friends. Mentally degrading yourself ever time you look into a mirror because of your biological reality.

Also, are you gonna start getting mad about black people reclaiming the n word next?

There's this thing called not contributing. It's like how I don't call women b*c even though if I personally stopped it wouldn't stop misogyny. It's because I don't want to be part of the problem, and let others around me think that it's okay behavior.

If you want to learn more about the history of gay conservatism in the US I would recommend reading "Coming out Republican: A History of the Gay Right" by Neil J. Young

To say that "conservatives will always find us strange and try to kill us." is factually incorrect. Homophobes find us strange and want to kill us. Many homophobes are Republican and many homophobes are Democrats.

You can argue for gay rights using conservative political stances (like small government and pro privacy) and you can argue against gay rights using progressive political stances (inclusivity against homosexuality I.E. "your club, organization, sexual orientation is bigoted because it doesn't include the opposite sex")

I mean, faggot doesn't mean all homosexuals. Freak isnt a word solely used against the queer community. Like, you being mad that people are reclaiming a slur isn't relevant. Stop being mad about trans people

Weird, I didn't mention trans people but you jumped to your own defense anyway.

Faggot absolutely can mean pretty much all lgbt people, I don't think there's a part of the community who I haven't heard a member talk about being called a faggot at one point or another.

As for freak, that's not really lgbt centric, but queer is and is essentially a way of saying homosexual freak as Queer means weird and/or otherwise abnormal and also homosexual/gay.

The first person I ever met that had and voiced this opinion was a transgender person all the way back in 2014. She would tag every post that used the word with "qslur" and block people for defending it's use.

Anon says not to be mad at people "reclaiming slurs" but reclamation can only be done by individuals, it's not reclamation to force it onto other people.

I once read someone (don't remember who, sorry) point out that there's a reason we don't call women's studies "bitch studies" or African and black studies "n-word history". Yet that is essentially what has happened to same sex attracted and gender non-conforming people. Our entire lives have been branded with a slur and if we object to being called it we're somehow the problem.

Men and women don't behave in different ways (observably untrue, if this was the case sexism would not exist)

Men and women behave in different ways due to biology (age-old sexist talking point, doesn't explain how behavior is heavily impacted by time period and culture)

If all trans women are female socialized, I can't understand how this would be the case unless you believe in a special female soul that is so present in a person AMAB that it deflects any and all absorbing of lessons and treatment from being perceived as male by others for an entire childhood. (Even if the individual thought they were male their entire childhood, had no female friends, and displayed clearly male-patterned socialization their whole life until transition)

on a video of a gay man saying the lgb should be separate from the t. so gay people are expected to show solidarity to trans people despite them denying the very existence of homosexuality, but the “solidarity” they give in return is highly conditional, based on if you support them, and if you don’t they’ll immediately resort to homophobia. great solidarity. seems like a fair deal…

“trans people show solidarity to gays!!!”

“you have a fucking faggcent you want to be a woman look at you bouncing your boobs”