Nice Tie!

Used, not abused

I do get this question. How can it be pleasurable to have your nipples clamped till you cry, your pussy flogged till it's red and even almost purple, your body contorted into unusual arrangements, and then have a cock rammed forcefully into your pussy, or your mouth, or your ass? Do you like this kind of abuse?

There is a simple answer to this, in two parts: 1. It's not for everyone, 2. I love it.

In a way, there are deep lessons to learn, i think, from observing, questioning and talking about D/s sex. Lessons about letting people choose their own path, if they aren't hurting others, and about the unhappiness and pain that occurs when we try to force everyone into the same mould. Submission is a path to fulfillment, for me. I am a sexual girl, and the erotic life is a key part of who i am, and I recognize that. So the discovery that I enjoy all these kinky things - as represented by the girl above - the rope bondage around her breasts, the pierced nipples (I am getting closer to that), the blindfold, the promise of some sexual teasing and stimulation that amounts to a kind of delicious torment, the totally draining sexual release of the orgasms that come with all of the above - this discovery put my life in balance. It has been a journey, and the early years were rocky and prone to mistakes, but that's the way life is.