due to bad opinions in my notes: shout out to aromantics who are fucking exhausted. society can feel extremely arophobic and amatonormative at times and sometimes the best you can do is try to get through situations without losing parts of yourself. The task of changing these deeply ingrained beliefs about relationship hierarchies and the status romantic relationships have in our society is a monumental one and it does not rest solely on your shoulders as one individual. There are moments where you can be boldly and loudly aromantic and there are moments where it is better to protect yourself. There are people who are happy to educate others and there are people who just want to live their lives without taking on that responsibility. It's okay. get some rest.














