Never Say Never

I’m going to start this blog off with talking about happiness. 

Many people, well actually most people spend their lives in search of it, the sad reality however is that the destination of happiness is clouded and lost in all the confusion that is life. 

I struggle with what happiness means to me, and a lot of people are like me in the fact that they have a hard time defining the word “happiness.” To everyone it means something different; to one person it could mean being rather wealthy while to someone else happiness could be defined by the company of good friends and loved ones.

The reason so many of us get lost along our journey of finding our own version of happy is because we let the opinions of other cloud our own judgements, try to silence what our hearts know to be our true desires. 

I am here to tell you one thing; and if this is the only one thing you take away from my whole entire blog I will be content. Stop letting others control your happiness, stop letting them push you down a path you know isn’t what you want for yourself. We are the only ones that can decide where our happiness comes from and if you live your life letting other people control that then you will never be happy, you will be upset and it will just end up making you feel more lost.