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The objectum community and label are, inherently, anti-para.

The term was created to distance Objectophiles from the paraphilic community due to not wanting to associate with them. Separation is exclusion.

Most people that use the term objectum also use "pedophiles/zoophiles" instead of rapists.

"Objectums" are inherently anti-paraphilia. You are an objectophile, not "objectum"

(I'm not usually one to police labels but this is the exception because it pisses me off that Objectophiles are trying to exclude paraphiles like that when they're paraphiles themselves.)

Adding an emoji sign off so I could find this later: 🃏🎀

Not all objectums consider their attraction to be paraphilic, they should be allowed to use a separate label that they feel they identify more with. (Also some use them interchangeably)

There are anti-para objectums, yes, but instead of policing labels, inclusivity should be encouraged.

we wish for a plural future.

and not in the way of wanting more people to have a dissociative disorder, but in the way of plurality being more accepted and known about.

and not just traumagenic plurality; all types of plurality.

everyone deserves a safe place to be themselves, which includes plurals of all kinds, no matter the origin.

Trebleplural is a term for systems who want to allow all Singlets, Medians, Plurals and any other related term to live in harmony.

Flag representation:

The Treblesand is wanting to help all systems live together in harmony.

Pink is for wanting to spread the love.

White is for openness to all origins and headspace forms.

Beliefs of Trebleplurals:

All origins of system are valid.

Systems can exists in any form of way.

There is no need to identify as TransDID or TransOSSD. Endogenic systems exist for that reason.

The past does not make a person and people can change.

Nobody deserves to die.

Everybody deserves a second chance.

Harassment is never okay, nor is being rude to people just because they’re something hazardous. Disguising it as plain “hate” is invalid too.

Labels have no restrictions, contradictory labels and goodfaith can exist and you should use what you want to.

Fiction can affect reality when given to the wrong audience.

A slur must be used positively to be reclaimed.

Fetishes and Kinks can exist, but only the appropriate age should engage in it.

People are allowed to be happy whilst having disorders.

People can be cringe if they want, weird is wonderful!

Paraphilles are okay, but if acted on in a way that harms people or animals is not okay.

CSAM is a real problem and must be solved.

This is a more serious post than what I normally do folks, just a forewarning.

Tw for the mention of pedophilia and discussion of POCD. If you want to skip this post because you feel you would be triggered by this, please do.

Does anyone else feel like the way the label radnormal is being used is in an inherently ableist way. A lot of posts I have seen have really incredibly triggered my POCD, due to their vitriol and misunderstanding of disorder vs. Just Being A Bad Person. There is so much stigma around having intrusive paraphilic thoughts, many of the posts I’ve seen under the radnormal tag have been totally ignoring that fact that many people with paraphilic disorders don’t want to experience what they experience surrounding attraction, and may be having intrusive thoughts and have not yet realised this (which had been my own experience).

I truly believe that saying that “if you think about this you are a pedo” is incredibly triggering for folks with POCD or other types of moral OCD. And I know for a fact that many people (although not all who are posting under the radnormal tag have said these things, but those who have) will not take real accountability for their actions and educate themselves on the type of language better used to not be ableist (whether this is an accidental or purposeful mistake).

tw for the next paragraph: mentions of SA, mentions of death threats (plus the same tw as the rest of this post)

My final point is that I myself am a survivor. People under the radnormal tag have this massive thing about “protecting survivors”, but I (personally) do not feel protected by the common radnormal rhetoric. I’ve seen posts detailing how anyone experiencing paraphilia should die. Does this include me with POCD which formed due to my trauma? I have no idea, and it scares me. The fact that people aren’t distinguishing between offending predators and people who don’t want to experience what they do and feel disgusted by their own thoughts and feelings, is disgusting to me. The fact that people are being so unconsciously ableist is disgusting to me. And the fact that I am yet to see a single person take accountability when a disabled person explains to them how they are being ablest via the way they are using the radnormal label, is disgusting.