The Nebulous System

[pt: Recovering / Ex Radqueer /end pt]

A flag for ex radqueers / recovering radqueers.

It is inclusive to all, regardless of their identity, their history within the community and the actions of their past.

[ID: Two flags with nine horizontal stripes each. The stripes stretch apart in the middle to leave more space for the middle stripe. The colors are from top to bottom: purple, blue, red, yellow, white, yellow, red, blue, purple. In the middle is a symbol of a rainbow with four colors; red, yellow, blue, purple; from the outer side to the inside. Beneath the rainbow are two brown bandaid symbols crossing each other. Both flags look the exact same. /end ID]

Color meanings:

The purple stripes are for ones history or past within the radqueer community.

The blue stripes are for the negative and positive experiences one had within the community.

The red stripes are for the identity one had formed within the community.

The yellow stripes are for the guidance out of the community.

The white stripe is for recovery.

[ID: Three Images. In the middle is a rainbow with four colors; red, yellow, blue, purple; from the outer side to the inside. Beneath the rainbow are two brown bandaid symbols crossing each other. The image on the left and right are blank. /end ID]

The rainbow symbolises happiness, health and healing. It is taken from the typical emoji combination of the radqueers.

MAD/MADIR paraphile

an alternative name for anti-contact "harmful" paraphiles that doesnt imply the attraction itself is harmful. the idea is anti-contact and anti-abuse "big 3/5" paraphiles are MADIR paraphiles. meanwhile pro, comp, neu etc. contact paraphiles are simply sexual predators.

MADIR stands for the main focus of attraction for the big 3/5, being minors, animals, the dead, and often additionally incest, and rape

it has no other inherent stances besides being anti-contact and anti-abuse, to my knowledge.

flag colors are my associations with each aspect of MADIR from top to bottom, with the optional bluish-white representing good nature, safety over desire, fantasy and fiction, and similar ideas

also important note: while I dont want them interacting directly with this post or blog Im okay with minors with paraphilic disorders using my flag for this. Im against MIK but paraphilias are complex, not necessarily sexual and often disordered so its difficult to tackle. all I ask is dont wave it around publicly because there are so many people in the community who may wanna take advantage of you. TLDR, if youre under 18 but this idea aligns with you, feel free to still use it where I wont see it (including publicly). just stay safe with it. stay safe online in general.

same with anti-c radqueers, I dont wanna associate with you personally but you deserve terminology thats useful to you. only thing that changes is you can use it publicly idgaf just dont @ me

coined by @dark-dickbin, flag by aster, tagging @rq-critical-coining-n-stuff , @tenting-archive @mogai-afterdark

"ohh youll probably change your mind when your older"

yeah im not gonna have kids

"but youre so good with kids"

yeah im not gonna have kids

"youre too young to know that for sure"

yeah im not gonna have kids

"you might meet someone that you really want to start a family with"

Nolan what did you do to himmmmm

he’s so disgusting in this movie?

Like makes comments about how Helen isn’t beautiful anymore and I’m pretty sure its implied he mutilated her face

This is the Menelaus who was so upset and enraged that his wife was stolen by Paris that he united the Greeks. This is the Menelaus that Helen chose (or her father chose, depends on what you read) to be her husband

Straight up Hermione erasure, btw, their daughter is not mentioned at all

Film Menelaus is reduced to a war-mongering man who just wants a pretty woman

Book Menelaus is absolutely not war-mongering and also my favorite character

For example in The Iliad, he is described (this is not verbatim, this is my memory) as guarding the dead body of Patroclus as a mother cow guards her babies—please tell me how that is a violent and greedy man

HE’S A GOOD PERSON OMG

HIS SWORD FALLS FROM HIS HANDS WHEN HE SEES HELEN AGAIN