Navy Blue Heart

I love my job, but reblogging employment jelly for someone else I love.

autistic anger issues are So Much. i have my temper more under control now in that i rly dont yell/lash out anymore but i do regularly boil inside with incandescent uncontainable rage over something inconsequential and then it evaporates in the span of ten minutes. incomparable

little miss awful body temperature regulation is taking his hoodie off again

little miss awful body temperature regulation has put his hoodie back on

This too shall pass but like holy fuck

“in order to create loving males we need to love males” means teach boys that they can be themselves without being less of a man. it means being encouraging and nurturing of their emotions so they don’t become cold and hateful. it means showing boys, early in their lives, that they have value outside of what our society deems proper masculinity. what it doesn’t mean is that it’s our job to handhold men who see women as walking sex toys through the concept of empathy, and maybe if we’re really really nice to them and don’t say things that hurt their feelings they’ll stop killing us for saying no

This is what that bell hooks essay actually says, btw.

i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping

I will say, just so much queer joy in general watching dnp sit in their matching precious baby angel tshirts playing a girly dress up game and assembling fabulous outfits and sassily criticising the other fits on the catwalk. It's just. They could never have done this with this amount of freedom and fun before, not without multiple thick layers of irony and "haha. yeah right"s over it all. And now here they are. Idgafing all over the place. They deserve it so much.