Vent Warning

Everyone says it's okay if someone's more sensitive than others but get mad when they meet someone who is.

Not that it's an entirely bad thing

But it ISN'T reasonable to expect us to drop a fandom completely

I'm sure anyone new who joins through here at least will come across the qwel situation tags and know not to play

Asking for a boycott on fanart, AUs, etc is unreasonable

I've tried being understanding before, but I'm tired of this

Calling for an entire fandom to just stop existing is lowkey taking it too far

Just sue back by this point my gosh

Autism CAN in fact make some people struggle with tone and wording things in general

Autism CAN in fact make some people not be able to catch things unless the said things are pointed out to them

Autism CAN in fact make some people not always catch themselves in general after being told something once, sometimes they need it to be brought up with them once or twice, and if they're offering to fix it after being told then it's quite clear that they had no malicious intent

It's okay to be hurt by their actions, but don't just instantly assume that it's done out of malice or tell others about their actions as if it was done out of malice when it wasn't and they offered to fix it once they were told

If someone tells you any of this is true to them, why is your first reaction to assume that anything they do is on purpose?

Why is your first reaction to get mad when they can't catch it on their own like they have said they couldn't?

Why is your first reaction to call them manipulative when all they say is that they didn't know people had a problem with something they did or say because it was never brought up with them?

They're doing nothing but saying the truth here

They likely know they could've handled other aspects better, but they have the right to say they need to be told certain things in order to catch said things

They're advocating for themselves over and over because people have a habit of not believing that they need what they say they need and would rather bring out the pitchforks

If people feel bad about not communicating their grievances, maybe it's just their subconsciousness?

If your first reaction to them not catching things they weren't told is to badmouth them to everyone they meet, then it's clear that you never believed them in the first place about their Autism or mental disability

People get mad if you don't

Let adults make ocs and AUs

Let adults age regress

Stop acting like adults can't ever have any kind of fun that isn't used for sex or pleasure.

Stop acting like adults can't use helpful coping mechanisms.

If you want more chill adults, you need to stop trying to gatekeep everything from them.

Not all adults are predators.