Torrie Foxx

Happy Trans Day of Visibility!

Long or short?

Warm colors or cool colors?

I did both

Context to the story:

The girl cut her hair once so that she could have bangs. The mother disapproved and decided to cut off 15" of her hair as punishment. The girl later again decided to change her hair style and the above was the result; she shaved her daughters head.

Having a few personal experiences with this kind of invasive behaviour it really hurts to see someone go through these kinds of things, where the parent tries to live vicariously through their childs life, to attempt to shape them and make their decisions for them depending on what THEY would do and give their child NO independence or self expression.

Thankfully, this mother thought her actions were 100% justifiable and posted it to Facebook as a bit of a “haha, teach my kid a lesson” and has been hit with brutal recrimination from her community and has had visits from Child Protective Services.

Children are NOT their parents’ possessions.

Perspective on DeviantART

alternatively titled:

“Perfectionism Is A Myth: You’re Just Mean To Yourself”  a novel by me