*so horny I can barely think* w-what if you exerted a high level of control over my daily routine to the point that I no longer had to put effort into being a person and could just exist for once?

saw a post about how nonsexual petplay is nice too and i got slapped upside the head with the remembrance that a lot of people see petplay in an exclusively sexual light. so many poor innocent pets who don't get to stop pretending to be people unless they're having sex... and so many owners that are too blinded by Being Horny to give their pets the laptime and scritches and praise they deserve......... if you own a pet but you make it feel like it's people outside of sex this is your sign to give it at least as much nonsexual attention as a pet as you do sexual ok? love your pet nicely

do this to me

"Yeah I get really turned on when people are kinda forward about wanting me" - person who struggles to feel desirable

The beautiful intersection of my deep self-loathing, social anxiety, and difficulty picking up on specific social cues