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[ID: justrightforme says @abnormalsystem It is a trinary: male, female, and nonbinary (duosex and nullsex, but same category of gender.) Also, saying your "gender identity" can change over time is transphobic and harms transsexuals. Saying sexuality changes over time is homophobic and harms homosexuals. It's fluid for a bisexual like you, maybe! /End ID]

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This is transphobia, exorsexism, varsexism, suptilicism/abrophobia, and aphobia. @this-is-abrophobia @thisis-aphobia @this-is-multigenderphobia

"It's a trinary" - and then they proceeded to list duosex and nullsex, which would make it 4, not 3? Can't even stick to their own narrative lmfao.

First of all, non-binary is a much wider spectrum than this. Non-binary people can be masculine, feminine, androgynous, neutral, null, genderless, xenine, outherine, aporine, multigender, multidirectional, unlabeled, and/or culturally gendered. It's so hilarious (/negative) to try and sort non-binary people into, once again, a binary (duosex or nullsex.)

Also, sex =/= gender. Men, women, and enben can have any sex traits, even if they're cisgender. Treating sex and gender as interchangeable is so damaging to the existence of cis intersex, cis transsex, cis detransitioning people, and TGD (trans & gender diverse) people who do not desire medical transitions (or are incapable of them due to disability).

These people who use "transsexual" interchangeably with "transgender" really love to deny the lived experiences of transsex people who are NOT transgender. For example, pericisgender men who get vaginoplasties/vulvoplasties, percisgender women who get phalloplasties/metoidioplasties, pericisgender men & women transition through HRT, pericisgender women who have vagina-preserving phalloplasties/metoidioplasties, pecisgender men who have phallus-preserving vaginoplasties, pericisgender men & women who get nullified, intersex cis men who transition their sex traits, intersex cis women who transition their sex traits, etc, etc, etc. The list goes on and on.

They also gleefully ignore literal queer history and are eurocentrist as hell, ignoring or undermining cultural genders and cultural sexes.

Additionally, I get irritated when these people say "duosex" as if that describes one specific thing. Duosex can be a combination of any androgenized and estrogenized traits, and thus, describes DOZENS of things. That means even duosex isn't just one specific sex. And frankly, neither is nullsex - nullsex people have varying forms of nullity.

It makes me sad that nullsex and duosex are such transmedicalist terms. They could have been such good all-inclusive altersex terminology. Oh well - at least duomorphic, multisex, and sexnull are safe for anyone to use. (Read more on that here [link.])

(My only note to you is that enben aren't always trans. Trans enben exist ofc, but so do cis enben [link]. Cis enben can have complex gender experiences due to being intersex, plural, culturally gendered, etc. The better thing to say is that "non-binary people are part of the TGD [trans & gender diverse] community.")

Also, gender definitely can change over time. Genderfluid people exist, caedgender and erasgender people exist, and trans people who feel as though their gender shifted over time exist. Their experience with their gender is no more or less valid than someone who feels as though their gender is static and has always been one specific way.

Which spoiler, we do, we exist, genderfluid people exist, and our existence is not transphobic. (throwback to that one time i explained what transfemmasc was and was told it sounded like a "maga" thing, and im not even american)

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