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don't know how controversial this is, but if you're going to let your own past trauma restrict your children's social lives, just don't have children. literally my best childhood memories are the time I spent with other kids playing outside or staying at their house. i've seen discussion about how staying at another kid's house should be forbidden because what if one of the family members is a freak. look, I had a friend who wasn't allowed to visit me when my dad was there, but it's because his behavior was outwardly antisocial and violent (last straw was trying break a car window with us in the car), not because of assumptions. if you assume everyone is going to behave this way, you will become incredibly isolated. the psychological damage is not worth the perceived safety. I used to work in childcare and actually decided not to pursue it long-term (despite receiving a lot of positive feedback) because I was aware I was a very anxious person and had to try hard to hide that behavior from young children. for example, during this time I had severe lilapsophobia, so i'd literally see wind in any situation and assume a tornado is imminent (no I don't live in an area where that happens). I really just had to quietly be on the verge of a panic attack 24/7 while outside at a playground with 5 year olds because I knew deep down the fear was illogical and didn't want to scare them.

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

I very much doubt Dua Lipa and her friends Down With Cis'd Gal Godot but god do I want it to be true

Praying that $1500 randomly comes to you when you need it the most this year.

I feel like I have a unique one. Back in the FF.net/DeviantArt days, I dated one of my favorite fanfic writers, lmao. Met through talking about the fic/fandom.

bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

reblog to let people know it's ok to bother you with questions and statements

please bother me with questions and statements

Oh my god reblog to save a me thank you

Reblogging even though it's way past Halloween bc this is an important reminder!

Stay away from anything with charcoal during this season if you are on ANY medication!!!

And the time of release was, what, about 7 years ago? Old enough not to be on store shelves anymore, but not old enough to be uncommon.

Same is true for American Girl dolls. At least 80% of all AG dolls out there in the world will never increase in value, especially if they’ve been played with at all. People can list things on eBay for whatever price they think they deserve; it doesn’t mean that the doll will sell for that amount. Ultimately they are mass-produced toys, and their secondhand value reflects that.

life actually gets better when you leave the house consistently btw like im serious

we need to make an add-on that gives you the dictionary definition of queerbait every time you make a post accusing a show of it because i saw someone call bowser/luigi queerbaiting and. i have officially had enough. if you hand to god thought that nintendo entertainment was going to let that lizard turtle monster raw the little green plumber guy then that is entirely your fault. i cannot help you any more.

Ok it’s a poll it’s not that serious but there is something funny about the non-writers voting the most and not reblogging the poll to get more results. Like that’s the most accurate representation of fic interaction on this website 💀

I think my first fic I can remember writing was in 6th grade, so 2009?