luke will you marry me

Fuck anyone who says I have to forgive everyone, “for my sake.” I worked hard for this anger. I worked hard to love myself enough to hate them.

Shit, yeah, this is a thing that is hard to articulate. Some people don’t feel healed by forgiving the people who hurt them, because that’s what they kept doing over and over and it only led to getting more hurt. Sometimes you feel healed when you’re finally brave enough to say “This person was horrible to me, and I did not deserve that treatment, and I don’t have to be okay with it.”

We are taught that a woman’s love is natural & a mans is validating. Do not for a second live by this lie.

I don’t get it

They r saying that when women love men it’s just natural, it isn’t a win or a celebration, of course that woman loves that man, that’s what women do! They are here to love men despite all of their flaws, it is our duty, the way a mother is expected to love their child, When men love women it’s validation of a woman’s ability to be loved, she earned that love, she is worthy of a man’s love, it is a prize, she must be something special, a man’s nature is to discard women that can’t perform their role, they must follow the template, their love is a checklist, his love is a game show and he is the prize, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free etc

Me

I love crossing the street while cars are turning cuz it’s like wow either you hit me and I die, you hit me and I sue you, or you don’t hit me and I get to cross the street either way I win.

my soul just got stripped from my body

“das me”

“how did he get in there”

men that are passionate about normalizing the naked body make me really uncomfortable…..“why can’t friends just be naked around each other why must everything be sexualized” kenneth you’re literally fooling no one and i don’t wanna be naked around u