sometimes a disconnect is necessary. even from the ppl u love. don’t feel guilty for wanting to be alone for a bit, to recharge or find yourself again. always prioritize your self.

Actions always prove why words mean nothing

It’s all inside, no words out.

Hypergamy is not about changing yourself to attract someone who will love you. Hypergamy is having so much self love that you become the best version of yourself AND thus attract someone who will only love you as much as you love yourself! Having the “look” of a hypergamous woman will not protect you from struggle love.

I recommend constructing a detailed image of who you want to be and how you want your life to be, down to all the details (love-life, work, money, your home, day to day life, etc). Flesh it out fully and let your heart and desires govern the whole thing, don’t hold back at all, create your ideal life. And everyday think about it - and feel it. Feel it as if your life is already that way. And make all your decisions according to its ultimate fulfillment. Get in touch with your values, what’s really important to you, and let them guide you.