Motylik

Talk on the phone w your friends and play in the sun and have picnics in the grass and bury your feet in the sand and be open to the world and learn from your mistakes and laugh often and go on drives to nowhere and protect what nourishes you and remember to have a good time

i will no longer be embarrassed i will no longer be a victim of insecurity i will no longer plague my mind with worries i exist i am allowed to exist i am allowed to take up space i will not let others dictate my experience i will live i will live i will live

being in your early 20s is crazy bc there’s people who are literally married and people who’ve never even dated and people who are trapped in their childhood bedrooms waiting to get out and people who are trying to live out romanticized dream lives and people who are completely on their own and people with multi tiered support systems and we’re all supposedly peers and none of us think we’re doing it right at all

Constantly repeating to myself “you are not broken you are young and learning how to live” during everything I do everywhere I go all the time

meeting people & growing apart from them & meeting new people & growing apart from them too & meeting other people & eventually growing apart from them as well & on and on and on

actually very reassuring knowing any person you “lose” is just a passing person in your life and that’s okay

life is for taking therapeutic walks and being in your own bubble and reading books in bed and drinking iced beverages and eating fruit and gaining new experiences and dozing in sunlight and finding love in everything and not letting guilt consume your life actually

no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s

ain’t nobody driving me crazy in 2022. I’M THE DRIVER NOW. buckle up bitch

date men who communicate and apologize

shoot your shot we're not here forever

I take this as a sign

pro hoe ✨pro virgin✨pro choice✨pro sex on the 1st date✨pro waiting til marriage✨pro anything thats consensual & you’re comfortable with✨

I sooo appreciate people who are disarming. Non-threatening. Gentle, reassuring, kind. A breath of fresh air. Those whose presence says, “come, rest, I don’t want to hurt you. I want to make sure I don’t hurt you.” Those people are my favorite kind.

"of course i remembered" is a love language

When Jane Austen said, "And sometimes I keep my feelings to myself, because I could find no language to describe them in," I felt that