"sysmed" usually equals "child abuse survivors with a highly stigmatized disorder trying to stop misinformation"
Do you guys realize that?
People with DID are abuse survivors. Abuse survivors since CHILDHOOD
We know systems with littles as young as three years old, due to their trauma. We have a little who is six years old, who holds the trauma of us being raped. At six years old. By our own brother.
Do you not understand that when you argue and tire out and trigger anti endos, "sysmeds", you're doing this to people who have been traumatized since early childhood? You wouldn't do this crap to a war veteran with PTSD, would you? So why do you do it to people with PTSD?
Do you see us as lesser than? As toys? As subhuman? "Look at those stupid sysmeds, they're not worth human respect, they're just dumb little TRAUMATIZED people, they're so lucky to be TRAUMATIZED, to be hurt so badly their brain did not develop correctly. Look at them, they think they're superior to us because they're TRAUMATIZED."
(these are things I have seen endos/supporters say)
Casual reminder that so many of us are taught through childhood that we're lesser than and are finally breaking from those beliefs, just to have those exact beliefs pushed back onto us.
Do you not realize this? Do you not understand?
Let's put this into an example, in case it's still not clicking.
Imagine, if you will, being a little kid maybe you've been abused all your life, and you don't feel safe in your own home. Maybe you've grown up in hospitals, in constant pain, and you don't understand why it won't stop. Maybe you were kidnapped and put in human trafficking at a young age. Maybe you were multiple of these.
Now, imagine. You're older now, you have access to Internet. Perhaps you've gone to therapy and been diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder. Perhaps you didn't and made an educated self diagnosis, based off weeks and weeks of research and see reflection and talking to other systems. You've found your place among people who understand. Who understand the flashbacks, and the memory loss, and the identity confusion, and the blackouts and the denial and the self blame and the internal conflict and never knowing what's real and the dissociation and the -
You've found people who understand your suffering. They get it. They feel it.
Now imagine. You're scrolling online. And you come across people who are saying you can be a system "without trauma". "for fun". "it's an identity".
They clearly don't understand. Systemhood is pain. Systemhood is suffering. Sure, maybe the alters isn't too bad. Sometimes. But the rest of it? This isn't "having alters" disorder, this is dissociative identity disorder. DISSOCIATIVE. The base of it? Dissociation. The cause of it? Being traumatized so badly that your brain couldn't handle it. And now you're seeing people treat it like a game. Like something fun and quirky.
And then they say how you're entitled. How you're jealous of them. You don't understand what they mean - this is something that is disabling. And they're making it a game. Do they not understand? How they're harming you and your friends, just by spreading the misinformation they spread?
And then, as of this wasn't bad enough, they attack you. They fake claim you. They run your friends off the internet, they push your friends to suicide. And they don't care. They take these as WINS. And while you're mourning your friends? They're busy finding their next target. They harass and abuse them until they're gone. They intentionally trigger them until they can't handle it anymore. They dox them and suibait them and all these things that you'd think they'd know better than to do just based off human decency.
But then you realize. They don't consider you human. They consider you lesser. They consider you subhuman.
And then you realize. They're using the same tactics your abusers did. Do.
And then you realize. It's come full circle.
And they think they're in the right because "I'm defending my identity!"
But it isn't an identity. It's a disorder. It's a trauma response. It's changed your life and you'll never get those moments you've lost back.
Now you understand why "sysmeds" are so upset. Because this is what we receive. This is how we see it. You see it as an identity? We see it as a normal life we never got to live. That we will never get to live.
This is in endo tags because this is pointed at endos.