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There's something about being aromantic that's just so freeing. Realising I have the freedom to shape my relationships in unique ways with people rather than having to conform to the cookie cutter of amatonormativity is one of my favourite parts about being aro, about being queer. In the immortal words of Rage Against the Machine, fuck you I won't do what you tell me, nothing is more queer

rb if you’re done with allo bs

I hate you forced random pairings at the last minute, I hate you love at first sight, I hate you “they’re obviously more than friends”, I hate you pity for single people, I hate you virgin jokes, I hate you amatonormative/allonormative media

"friendzoning"? i think we should talk about romancezoning. as someone who's aro, it makes me incredibly uncomfortable if someone says they're romantically interested in me. i guess it could be a little flattering at first, but the idea of, like, my close friends secretly wanting a romantic relationship instead is. not a pleasant thought.

YES EXACTLY