The Party's Started

I'm not mourning my teenage years because i falsely believe all girls have a magical adolescence I'm fucking mourning it because i didn't get to be a real person. I'm really fucking glad you can talk about how being a teenager wasn't perfect, i didn't exist.

Between that male doms post, the post about exhibitionism being hot so long as men are not involved, and even one of my yuri forcefem instant loss posts I think it’s just a universal true that a lot of potentially hot or arousing things are kind of ruined by the presence or existence of men. The combination of already being societally pushed into being a sex object for men and not being attracted to men really kills so many examples of something that you might otherwise enjoy.

this extends to art about fetish worlds. the problem is that too often art about Fetish World where its your fetish is made by a man being very heterosexual about it and it ruins it.

World where men are regularly at risk of magically turning into women (awesome) and then men have sex with them (lame).

a lot of you have mistaken unbridled and honestly vile serophobia for safe sex advocacy lol

stop calling people "clean" or "dirty," stop calling people stupid for having had unsafe sex or otherwise contracted an STI, stop fearmongering and playing up your disgust for a type of illness that the majority of people will contract at some point in their life, stop acting like regular testing isn't something that many many responsible people engage in, stop treating STIs as a moral taint and not a class of overwhelmingly curable (and in other cases manageable with treatment) infections, it is beyond obvious that this is less about genuine care for others and more about keeping alive the same smug sense of self-satisfaction that's been carrying you since middle school health class

i genuinely worry seeing how some of you talk about protection (which, to be clear, is great!) as the sole ward against a universally life ruining illness. if you're sexually active then it's more likely than not that at some point in your adulthood you or one of your partners will get a positive on a panel, when this happens the most likely outcome is that recent partners get phone calls and then everyone at significant risk goes into a clinic and gets a shot in the arm that kind of stings and then you don't have unprotected sex for like a week. ymmv depending on the infection and your relationship style and status. protection is cheap and a great option to reduce worry in your life but you are doing nothing to advocate its use by talking about STIs in the same fire-and-brimstone way your that your abstinence-only gym/sex ed teacher did

What IS it with tumblr users and “biting” I bet you people have never even bitten someone irl