i love experiencing how my classmates work to avoid misgendering me. for instance, today one classmate greeted the rest of our small group: āAll right ladies and gentlemen ā and Averyā
another time a classmate went: āPardon me, maāam ā uh, sir, uhā¦.esteemed oneā
and, my absolute fave: āHey ladies! ā and gentleThemā
i love these moments both because theyāre humorous and because they show how hard these folks are trying! itās not about getting it right every time at first, but consistently correcting yourself!
Itās not about getting it right every time at first, but consistently correcting yourself!

















