Partial Prudence

zuko:

The thing is doesn’t matter how much horrible, without personality and shallow everyone in the show is, Joe hasn’t any right to do any of the things he did. That’s the fucking point, he’s not cute, he’s a fucking psycho.

Although I probably wouldn’t be friends with Beck or Beck’s friends, or anyone, apart from Ethan, maybe; what I’m saying is: you can not make those people seem so horrible to the point that what Joe did is justified. Like Peach was a fucking stalker, it’s discusting but she didn’t deserved to die. Although I don’t really give much shit about her death, but thats not the point. Same with Benji, he was a dick but death? They’re horrible, but didn’t deserved their fate.

Now with Beck, she was a cheater and with a lock of flaws in her personality, but she has a horrible childhood and didn’t turn out to be a fucking serial killer. She didn’t deserve any of the things Joe did in the name of “love” and she’s the victim here. Trying blame her for what happened or saying she deserve it just because she was shallow is fucking pathetic, she is the fucking victim. A guy she barely knew violated her privacy, her life, killed her friends, steal her underwear, her phone, her diary… and some people have the guts to think she deserve it for some reason. It’s fucked because if you think about our reality it’s fucking similar, blaming a woman for everything a sick man do to her. Joe had a bad past and etc. and he didn’t deserve it, because nobody deserves it, but it doesn’t give the right for him to do any of those things with anyone.

Its gets to my fucking nerves because you see this shit in real life, you see men being abusive towards women and abuse the fuck out of them and no one believes she’s the victim, because somehow it’s always her fucking fault. It’s exhausting because a guy could be anything and do whatever the fuck he wants and no one cares, but a woman has to be perfect because if she isn’t then she’s the villain.

It’s directed beautifully, they subtly show feminism without exclusively bad mouthing men, and without hesitating they show the issue of how girls are viewed in India. I can safely say that the level of misogyny is in a lot of Asian countries, households and community, it really hits close to home.

They even mentioned the reality of underage marriage and why it’s a problem.

This is Geeta: 

This is Babita 

and this is their father, Mahavir Singh Phogat,