Raven1019

it is not morally wrong to not be able to work, go to school, do heavy labor, walk long distances, or even walk at all. you haven’t done anything wrong, and you can’t help having these problems with your body. able-bodied people need to stop assigning moral value to things many disabled people cannot do. you are not a bad person for having limits, or for knowing and respecting them.

Also, maybe stop accusing disabled people of not being sick just because you can't see what's wrong. Not everything can be seen

Don't be so hard on yourself or get discouraged. Dieting is the worst and it was just Thanksgiving. And yes husbands do not get it when it comes to our weight but that awesome guy you have at home loves everything about you and he's not looking at how much you weigh. He's just looking at you. Don't work yourself too hard and you can always have a veggie burrito 🙂

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

I have a boring office job too. I work for a construction/maintenance company. It’s sucks and my boss is a dick. I’m not really fond of it but it’s a job. That’s awesome that you have such a great relationship with your mother in law. My mother in law didn’t really take the time to get to know me until we got engaged. Now it’s all good. Lol. They are so cute when they are that little. Watch out if you get a Christmas tree. When I brought my cat Paris home she got into everything and when we put up a tree she got inside the tree and managed to climb up the trunk and ended up by the star. We ended up putting the tree in a play pen so she couldn’t get near it.

Same here. Once I get pregnant im going to go part time and then stay home after the baby is born. I want to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want to miss all the babies firsts. We can’t wait to have kids. Some people think im nuts but we already picked out names. Whatever works but it’s nice that you can have a close relationship since your family is far away. Oh I love when they are all cuddly. She must be so happy when you get home. I got Paris as a birthday gift from my mom and she was so adorable. She was so tiny. She used to climb up on the bathroom counter and sleep in the sink.

Lol I didn’t know cats could fetch either until my mom taught her cat Charlie to do it. It’s so cute. I wanted to wish you and your husband a very Happy Thanksgiving and I also wanted to say thank you. You have been so sweet chatting with me and the other night I was so nervous about my procedure and just talking with you kept my mind off of it. You have such a kind heart & i look forward to more chats. Im still figuring out this site but i think im getting it i hope. I hope you have a great day with your family and I hope hubby’s aunt doesn’t give you a hard time & if she does just ignore her. Well back to cooking. The hubby is lurking in the kitchen and that is never a good thing :o)

Her fetching has officially become a problem. She has decided we need to be up at 5am every morning to play fetch with her. Haha. I hope you had a great Thanksgiving! It’s so nice to talk to you :) And a lurking hubby is always a bad thing!

Oh wow. That is early. I guess it's good practice for when you have kids. Thanksgiving was nice my husband spent the entire day in his old bedroom watching football and then when we finally got home he tells me he's hungry. Such a pain. And now Christmas is right around the corner. I've already started to bake. I promised my niece we would build a gingerbread house from scratch so this should be interesting.

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Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

I have a boring office job too. I work for a construction/maintenance company. It’s sucks and my boss is a dick. I’m not really fond of it but it’s a job. That’s awesome that you have such a great relationship with your mother in law. My mother in law didn’t really take the time to get to know me until we got engaged. Now it’s all good. Lol. They are so cute when they are that little. Watch out if you get a Christmas tree. When I brought my cat Paris home she got into everything and when we put up a tree she got inside the tree and managed to climb up the trunk and ended up by the star. We ended up putting the tree in a play pen so she couldn’t get near it.

Same here. Once I get pregnant im going to go part time and then stay home after the baby is born. I want to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want to miss all the babies firsts. We can’t wait to have kids. Some people think im nuts but we already picked out names. Whatever works but it’s nice that you can have a close relationship since your family is far away. Oh I love when they are all cuddly. She must be so happy when you get home. I got Paris as a birthday gift from my mom and she was so adorable. She was so tiny. She used to climb up on the bathroom counter and sleep in the sink.

Lol I didn't know cats could fetch either until my mom taught her cat Charlie to do it. It's so cute. I wanted to wish you and your husband a very Happy Thanksgiving and I also wanted to say thank you. You have been so sweet chatting with me and the other night I was so nervous about my procedure and just talking with you kept my mind off of it. You have such a kind heart & i look forward to more chats. Im still figuring out this site but i think im getting it i hope. I hope you have a great day with your family and I hope hubby's aunt doesn't give you a hard time & if she does just ignore her. Well back to cooking. The hubby is lurking in the kitchen and that is never a good thing :o)