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the true tea:

myvidster: all-around umbrella site. good for new and old studio scenes, vintage stuff, and full movies as well. a true jack-of-all-trades (no pun intended)

xhamster: usually perfect for classic/vintage scenes as well as lots of amateur content.

xvideos/xxnx: amateur videos galore! also, really handy for finding old and new solo (cam guy) footage.

pornhub: (don’t really care for her tbh) good for most studio scenes and has amazing amateur stuff every now and then. she’s a cute girl…

gaycock4u: it is that girl for studio scenes. literally has most new scenes within a week of their release.

eegay: i love this site! it has so many scenes that you could literally find something new everytime. also, they do have full movies but they’re broken up by scene (which i prefer)

and lastly,

If you are having regular sex and aren’t on truvada yet… why?

The company that makes truvada (Gilead) offers a copay card making the medication literally FREE to you. And furthermore my prescribing doctor said he would do anything to help get this medication to me at little to no cost.

If you google “Gilead Copay Card” it will bring you to a page where you enroll- for free- and then you can save the image of the card till the physical one comes in the mail. Present it to your pharmacy and your script is literally FREE. THERE IS NO REASON TO NOT GET ON PrEP!!!

btw @ people saying truvada is untested or has unknown side effects, PrEP/PEP (what truvada is) has existed for almost 30+ years in hospitals for nurses (src: my mom worked as a nurse for 30 years in the uphs) working in HIV wards that would get exposure via accidental needle sticks, there is minimal side effects that your doctor will go over with you.

(the only reason we hear about these side effects is that the FDA is afraid to let gays be healthy and make their own decisions! it wasn’t until last year that we were allowed to donate BLOOD, and even then with restrictions!)

everyone who says there is x y and z reason to not support this drug is homophobic and just regurgitating reagan republican propaganda

also make sure that when u go on it, you stay on it

But from what I’ve learnt in talking to sex health clinics is that there’s two ways ofnusing the drug:

1. Take it daily (the obvious choice) to remain protected and always on guard.

Or, and not many know about this,

2. Take it 24 hours pre-sex and then continue taking it for 48 hours post-sex.

Both are equally effective in preventing the transmission of HIV, and whilst the first allows you the freedom to fuck on the fly without any thought, it can help to just know that you don’t actually need to take the medication 24/7 to get its benefits.

I’m baffled as to why PrEP wasn’t explored and tested once it was known it could prevent transmission but I get thats not the fault of doctors and more just red tape and corporate bullshit.

if you didnt know like i did until last January of this year, BC recently approved Truvada! so you can totally get them for free! if you’re interested and live like in Metro Vancouver, Canada then keep reading! (i’m not sure if the info i provide will apply to the rest of BC and USA but i’ll share it anyway for those belonging to my intended demographic)

anyway, ask your family doctor about PrEP and if they don’t know about it, you can print out the form from here http://www.cfenet.ubc.ca/publications/centre-documents/pre-exposure-prophylaxis-prep-enrolment-prescription-request-form .

so yeah, once you give that PrEP form to your family doctor, they will know what to do so they can do all the paperwork and give you a lab requisition form to get your blood work done. since you have to be tested first before they prescribe PrEP to you. the good thing is there are a decent number of LifeLabs around where you can get tested or you can ask the front desk of your family doctor to give you an address of the nearest labs in your area.

once you’ve done your bloodwork, it should take more or less a week or 2 weeks for the results to come in and once they’re in, you will most likely receive a phone call from St Paul’s Hospital/Pharmacy in Vancouver for them to confirm how you would like your prescriptions to get to you. if you’re in Vancouver, you can drop by the pharmacy to pick up your prescription. but if you’re like me who happens to live an hour away from the city, you can certainly have them delivered to your family doctor’s clinic!! they will instruct you on how to get these done but from what i recall, they asked for the family doctor to fax an official request

when that’s done, your doctor would schedule a follow-up appointment for you to pick up the prescription once they have arrived. they will give you a 3-week sample first because they wanna make sure that it’s not affecting your system badly (it shouldnt but you know it’s just protocol)

after that, you may have to get tested again before you can get your next prescription but everything goes smooth-sailing from here since you can ask your doctor to have a tri-monthly prescription! you will have to get tested every 3 months though but LifeLabs can give you a card for it so you can just come in every 3 months and won’t have to ask your doctor for a recquisition form. when everything is fine after 3 months, i believe you can ask your doctor for a bi-annual prescription too cause i recall my doctor saying that could be an option.

when it comes to taking it, you can refer to the suggestions above from prev comments! i do either of the two too!