I'm just a guy who likes girls and also fat. I fantasize of being someone's feedee, feeder, or mutual feeder, but honestly I can't see myself being able to support or provide as a feeder. I just wanna be a ffa's stay at home emotional support fat boy. The only exception to being a fully housebound feedee are the times you'd want to show me off and take me out to eat somewhere.
I'm mostly here to make friends, but it would be amazing if I could meet a ffa to be my feeder or mutual feeder. If you're interested in taking that position for me PLEASE don't hesitate to let me know. I will fill just about any role that allows me to be your personal fully dependent fat boy because I'm into pretty much every aspect and dynamic of feedism imaginable. I'll give up as much control over how much i eat and how much I'm allowed to move as you want. I'll do everything in my power to keep gaining for you as long as you help me do it.
Mutual feeding is by FAR my favorite dynamic but I can survive without it. The more fat in my life the better, that goes both for me and my hypothetical future partner. I'd much rather my feeder to also have a decent amount of weight on her. I am simply not attracted to thin people at all, while i do get a little enjoyment from contrast, that's all i get from skinny feeders.
DMs are open and feel free to send me an ask to talk to me about anything feedism releated (goals, progress, encouragement, fantasies, rp, etc.) and even any non feedism things I enjoy. I love talking and meeting new people, and I'm almost always available to talk.
BUT PLEASE DON'T ASK ME FOR ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES MONEY. THE ANSWER WILL ALWAYS BE NO.
CW: 200ish pounds. I don't have a scale, but I've been within a close range of 200 for a really long time now
GW: No end goal or limit, but I'll be sad if I never get past 600 pounds. Becoming immobile is also a huge goal for me.
The only reason I'm not fatter than I am now is because I just don't have enough consistent access to lots of food. And I must admit that is mostly because the "pathetic guy who has no job and lives with his parents with no hope in sight of ever changing that" stereotype thing is embarrassingly accurate to me and my current life situation.
I'm into just about every aspect of feedism you can imagine from the softer stuff to the further extreme aspects. Also, I'm pretty equal 50/50 submissive and dominant, but I typically lean toward submissive out of fear of upsetting people. Once i get to know you, your interests, and your boundaries, I'll eventually start being more dominant if that's your preference. I'll edit and add to this whenever someone asks me a question about something this post doesn't already cover.
Likes
Force feeding
Messy eating (within reason, don't want to intentionally waste food)
Slob (Burps can be hot as fuck in the right circumstances but on they're own I'm pretty neutral towards them. Meanwhile, farts are something that don't do anything for me and I wouldn't want to focus on them, but they don't bother me in the slightest)
Use of mobility aids (mobility scooter, bariatric wheelchair, walker, and any other equipment designed to help people with mobility issues)
Any other required equipment to just exist as a massively obese person that doesn't require some kind of injection (Don't like needles)
Immobility
Namecalling (pig, piggy, hog, cow, whale, etc) but always in an affectionate or teasing tone, genuinely meaning them as insults is a big no from me)
Oinking/mooing
Outgrowing/ripping/damaging clothes
Breaking furniture
Fat overflowing off of furniture and needing multiple pieces of furniture to support the entire body
Reinforced/larger furniture to contain and support such a massive body
Extreme Feedism/light healthplay (In the sense of gaining extremely large amounts of weight, pushing the limits of what the human body can handle. Death and any amount of suffering is never and should never be a goal. If the gaining process isn't being enjoyed by the one actually gaining the weight on their body, things need to change to fit their desires.)
Most things where fat is treated as a positive thing regardless of context, and both feeder and feedee are comfortable and appreciated.
On the fence
Death Feedism (Mostly in hypotheticals and fantasies though. And even then, I only really enjoy it in the sense of "How far can you push yourself before your body eventually gives out" the actual death part doesn't interest me in the slightest and honestly still makes me a little uncomfortable)
Dislikes
Intox
Vore
Inflation
Pregnancy
Blueberry
Referring to any amount of weight gain as the person being "ruined" in any way
Anything where being fat is treated like a bad thing or viewed negatively in any way.
Again, I will edit and add to these lists when I think of something relevant or if someone asks.
Finally, outside of feedism, theres a lot more to me if you care to know. I dont like advertising it a lot or using it as an excuse but I do have autism and adhd, so if i upset you somehow, I can assure you it was 100% accidental. Just let me know and I'll adress the issue.
I also have a large variety of interests
My main obsessions are Transformers, Undertale/Deltarune, Splatoon, Persona, and Ace Attorney. And I know them extremely well, especially Transformers and Undertale/Deltarune.
I also enjoying voice acting, writing, performing for people just in general, and I've been told I'm pretty good at singing.
