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Nothing but the wallpaper

Supplies

Item to carry with you/wear beit jewelry, a worry stone, fidget, book, tablet etc

Incense, candle, vapor oil, wax or other scent if applicable that you associate with cleansing (mine are patchouli, pine, sandalwood, or lavender)

A clear stone, crystal, piece of glass or good old water. Basically anything clear or see through

Tea light, chime, or pillar candle depending on how much juice you want this thing to have

Lists of the people you want to ignore you.

Incantation

[Insert higher power, guide, spirit, etc] I call on you to imbue this object to hide me from [names, family tree branch] so that to them I am nothing but the wallpaper. Seen and uninteresting, there but unnoticed.

Directions

Cleanse the object in your preferred manner (I like a combination of smoke and sound but you do you). Place the list in a fire safe container and the candle (anointed or not) on the list, place the object in front of the fire safe dish. Repeat the incantation as you light the candle and as often as you feel is needed. Let it burn all the way down (keep in sight) or until you feel the object has been charged. Touch it while repeating the incantation again.

Building and recognizing your own correspondences is very powerful too and shouldn't be slept on!!

Like, if a spell tells you to use a green candle for a money drawing spell but you associate money and wealth and abundance with the color purple... I think it's better to use purple!

If you are a socially anxious person, you have to socialize. Your panic/anxiety attacks will only get worse and trigger more frequently if you constantly avoid contact with The Public. Not saying that you need to be a social butterfly- but there is a genuine problem with not being able to order your own meal at a restaurant. And it cannot be solved by always having someone else do it for you.

Your Life As A Moodboard

Treating your life as a moodboard means reblogging art, music, fashion, and fandom posts until your taste becomes your personality. It’s less about chasing trends and more about aesthetics as a language of identity—and it’s how many curate, perform, and communicate who they are online. The girlbloggers on Tumblr excel at this form of aesthetic journaling, and girlblogger-core has been on the rise in 2025. We saw 52.4% more original posts created using top girlblog tags like #girlblogging, #coquette, and #hell is a teenage girl, while search volume for the latter was 80% higher than last year. Engagements on these tags ran to over 105 million—that’s a lot of likes, replies, and reblogs!

Girlblogging Aesthetics

The Girlbloggers Have Their Sh*t Together (Sometimes)

DECEMBER ENERGY

Sabbat: Yule (celebrated in the Northern Hemisphere between December 20-23; date in 2025 is December 21)

Tarot Energy: the hermit, the world, temperance

DECEMBER 2025 LUNAR PHASES

Full Moon in Gemini: December 4

Last Quarter in Virgo: December 11

New Moon in Sagittarius: December 19

First Quarter in Aries: December 27

OTHER DECEMBER ASSOCIATIONS

Birthstones: zircon, turquoise, tanzanite

Flower: narcissus

Zodiac Signs: Sagittarius and Capricorn

Full Moon: Cold Moon

Stir the coffee or tea Clockwise and say

"I bring myself calm and positivity."

Then stir counterclockwise and say