do the homos know that “not into the scene at all” is really code for “I hate being gay and I hate gay men so why do I keep wanting them to rail me in the bathroom at Denny’s?”
it’s so annoying to have people who live in states like Florida, California, cities like New York or fucking Seattle even, states deeply rich with gay culture and gay history and strong gay communities, histories embedded in the foundation of the modern culture of those places, reblog and make these posts that absolutely shit all over gay bars and the people who visit them, while being mindbogglingly oblivious to the fact that gay people who do not live in these areas live in places where gay bars are the literal only connection we have to our community, the only place we have that celebrates who we are and what our people are and have accomplished, it’s the only place we can go and be unapologetically gay, the only place we have
you ignore that fact that we exist in this vacuum where who we are is not the same as who you are BECAUSE of the cultural divide from the outside of our country inward, and you don’t care because you’ve literally never lacked a place to BE YOU, gay bars are that place for us, the only ones, I can’t stress that enough
so you get to exist as you and shit on the only piece of the puzzle we have, and continue on why more and more of the people who live in smaller, rural areas feel shamed by everything around them, and our bars close their doors because less and less people feel confident going to them
so, no, I don’t care that you’ve been giving complete freedom to exist without apology, yet choose to stand there with your receding hairline and lame ass super mario t-shirts and cut off jeans and let internalized homophobia make you say vapid and stupid things about gay bars and gay people who go to them because you’d rather stay home and jerk off to bioshock characters because you think it makes you cool and different and ~other~ than we are
from the bottom of my heart, fuck you
