a materialgirl living in a structuralworld

Cultural victories of misogyny over feminism during the 2010s MRA era, which they likely weren't responsible for but still managed to inherit

Conscious or subconscious belief that they are the true bearers of feminism due to their innate connection to womanhood, so transfeminism must be about them, the trans people most connected to womanhood

The impulse of seeing trans women do something cool and going "Hey, why aren't we a part of that?" that ends up becoming "Hey, why aren't we the focus of that?" once you apply the first two points

The "we're all faggots in the eyes of the state" mentality meaning they reject difference entirely and believe anything made for anyone in the trans community, even a subset of the trans community, is just as much for them

Personal arrogance (not uniquely a transandrophobiaposter problem) leading them to go "Ahh, a bunch of people have thoughts on gender and politics, but their thoughts are different from mine. Given that I learned The Perfect Queer Politics from tumblr osmosis, I am the perfect person to correct this movement from its erroneous path."

The second point combining with the fifth point to become, "Ahh, all these former-males have ideas about feminism! Good! But they're a little wrong, probably because they don't have someone with a connection to womanhood correcting them. I, a trans man, would be perfect for the job"