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Chastity Training

First let me start that this is for sissies without owners, owners can determine there own training schedule.

I bought a locking device on Amazon called the Kitchen Safe. It is a timed locking device. You can set it for any length of time and when it locks the only way to get it open is to break the case. I bought a non clear model so once it is locked then I can’t see what is inside.

Next get a chastity that is somewhat comfortable that you can’t escape from that locks. Your only cheating yourself of your proper training.

Chastity schedule:

When in your chastity the device is to be locked and the key is to be in some way you can’t get to it, sissies can’t be trusted with the keys.

When out of the chastity you are to clean the device and your genitals to proper maintain health and cleanliness. You are to resist playing unless it says you can. When you do you are to eat it like a proper sissy should.

Every day you should be cleaning as best as you can for proper health. If something does not feel right stop and assess your health.

1: 1 day in chastity, 1 day out. 2: 2 days in chastity, 1 day out. 3: 4 days in chastity, 1 day out. 4: 5 days in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean. 5: 1 week in chastity, 1 day out. 6: 1 week in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean. 7: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 8: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 9: 1 week in chastity, only enough time to clean. 10: 1 week in chastity, 1 orgasm allowed and only enough time to clean.

At this point you are going a whole month in chastity only a week at a time between full cleanings. You may maintain this for a while before moving on. Remember this is your choice, and listen to your body, it will tell you if your ready to move on. Make sure if you move on your device is able to be cleaned while inside.

11: 2 weeks in chastity, only enough time to clean. 12: 2 weeks in chastity, only enough time to clean. 13: 2 weeks in chastity, 1 orgasm and only enough time to clean. 14: 1 month in chastity, only enough time to clean. 15: 1 month in chastity, 1 orgasm and only enough time to clean. 16: repeat steps 14 and 15 till ready to go forward.

17: increase steps 14 and 15 to 2 months.

So you see where this is going, it is taking each step slowly allowing you to clean and maintain health and decreasing your allowed orgasms. You may continue at your own choice increasing the months till your at 6 and 6. Yea! You have been in chastity without orgasm for a year.

You can also, depending on your body do this with the weekly just not allowing orgasm more and more but allowing a weekly cleaning.

Tell me what you think and where you are in the process!

Must be strong enough. Masc enough. Built enough to wear these. No hiding or covering up.

~COACH

This can be a somewhat large can of worms in my opinion but I’ll try and keep it brief. Everything within is from personal experiences Dad and I have shared. @tndaddybear has been amazing at supporting me, and us, through this process.

Keep expectations realistic.

If you’re just starting out, don’t expect to last three months or something like that. Take time to acclimate to the changes your body and psyche will go through. For example, in no particular order:

1) Your body physically will require time to adapt. Your nuts might get sore and chaffed until they’re used to being constantly confined… they may need time to heal. Your body will also have reactions to not getting off. That might mean leaking cum tears, painful nuts (for me that happens after fucking when I’m all wound up,) uncontrollable erections in the night that will wake you, and the occasional night emission (it’s always a little odd to wake up thinking, “Why am I sticky?”).

2) Your mind will experience changes more than your body. The emotions will change, sometimes rapidly. You might be desperately horny to fuck one minute, and angrily frustrated that you can’t cum the next. Having a strong key holder to keep you stable in the maelstrom of emotion is really important. I find after the first few weeks of a lockup, they tend to chill out. I’m currently at about month 5, week 1. It’s now just a part of who I am, and generally don’t realize it’s there. Sometimes I buck up, but it happens less frequently, and less intensely than in the beginning. No matter what, talk about what you’re experiencing with your key holder. They’re a part of the process, don’t shut them out. That’s how resentment happens. Talk everything out.

3) One of the more annoying parts of chastity: finding the right fit. You may need to try multiple devices, or multiple ring sizes. You may find that you go through a dozen devices. We have. Be ready to adapt when you find a cage just isn’t working. It’s not supposed to be painful (all the time,) it’s supposed to be fun. Don’t think there’s only one chastity solution out there.

Take the proper time to build up your tolerance.

You can’t just suddenly lock up and go three months, unless you’re a supersub. If you can, rock on. But for most folks, I advise the following schedule to begin:

1) 12 hours, during the workday, through the gym, school, whatever your daily routine is. Take it off at night.

2) Next, go overnight. Lock up before bed, experience what that’s like, and assess the situation in the morning. A break may be needed, it may not.

3) Then, go an entire 24 hour period at a minimum. Wake up locked, go through your day locked, settle in for bed locked, and sleep locked. 

4) You now know what to expect. Go three days. By now, you should have tested your environments, driving, school, work, gym, etc. If you cannot function through a critical part of your day, reassess what cage you’re using. You may need to try others.

5) Time to go a whole week. Then two weeks. Then a month. Then three months. Then…… and so on.

The point is, build up. Your body is made of muscles. You can’t lift 95 pounds in a bench press one day, and 305 the next, right? Don’t do that to your genitalia either. Train it. Train your mind especially.

Clear, defined expectations with yourself and/or key holder.

I don’t necessarily recommend open time limits in the beginning. It leads to frustration, anger, feeling lost, or maybe like you’re not really working towards anything.

Dad sets milking periods for me, and we tend to stick to them. It looks like this: Dad will say, “I’ll choose a milking date on the first of the month,” and then that doesn’t mean it happens on the first. It happens on a date he chooses on the first. Still flexible, still in Dad’s control, and still gives me something to look forward to.

Have conversations that lead to understanding what the purpose of chastity is. That’s going to mean something very different for everyone. For one, it might mean being a human dildo, where your key holder locks you up, uses you to ride while they get off, and locks you back up whether you cum or not. They might punish you if you do cum. It might mean focusing your attention from your dick to theirs exclusively (probably the most common.) Whatever the goals and expectations are, know them. Make sure everyone knows and understands. Clear expectations are healthy. Boundaries are healthy.

Cleanliness is next to godliness.

Figure out what cleaning method works for you. Bacteria can be a real bitch, don’t be foolish and think weeks in a cage without cleaning will just be fine. Use shower wands, liquid soaps, hydrogen peroxide and a q-tip, whatever works for you. If you have foreskin, you may need to be unlocked for a supervised cleaning more often, I wouldn’t know, I’m cut. 

A sub is no good to their dominant if they’re not in proper working order. That’s the sub’s responsibility, and the dominant’s responsibility to inspect.

It’s not bondage till you want out.

Dad says this to me all the time, it’s not bondage till you want out. Try to let go of your individual wants and needs, and understand with your key holder, you are now a part of a collective sex life. Consider, “My pussy is my sex organ,” and leave your dick out of the equation entirely. This leads to…

The most effective chastity device is between your ears.

Your brain is the most effective chastity device, period. Whatever you commit to, understand, if you want to cheat, you will. If you want to behave, you will. If you’re locked up, use that energy to further other projects. Workout more regularly, study more effectively, be more focused at work. 

When periods of extreme horniness come, let them wash over you. Be in heat. Be a cunt in heat. And tell your key holder. Beg. Let them know where you’re at. Let them help you. There will be a fire in your pussy that only their cum can put out. Trust and believe.

When you truly give yourself to the chastity life style, as opposed to resist resist resist, beautiful things happen. And that’s probably a post for another day. 

Thanks for the great question! I hope I answered effectively. 

October 16: I am now into week three of abstinence under my Sir’s orders. This is now the longest I’ve gone in my life without an orgasm. 

I’ve often heard that when a person loses one of his senses, the perceptions others grow stronger to compensate for the loss. The blinded person gains better hearing, more sensitive smell, etc. Now that my cock and balls are no longer the focus of my sex life, my body has become erotically charged in ways I’ve never experienced. Just before writing this, my Sir made me drop to my knees and suck his cock. He told me he was going to feed me a load before he left for work.

The moment the head of his cock touched my lips, I felt a jolt of energy run through me. I love to suck cock (especially my Sir’s), but now it feels like my whole body is invested in the experience. When he put his hands on my head and shoulders and petted me, guiding my head along his shaft, I felt warmth and excitement wherever his fingers landed. When he whispered, “You’re a good boy,” the sound of his voice made me groan with pleasure. When he told me to turn and face the mirror, the sight of my alpha feeding his slave, my hands behind my back, made my cock leak pre-cum into my jockstrap. And when he reached down to stroke my nipples, I shuddered with the same excitement and energy of an intense orgasm. For a moment, I even worried I might shoot my cum. My Sir sensed this, and ordered me to slow down and focus. I put my energy into gliding my head as smoothly up and down on his turgid cock until, with his cockhead down into my throat, he shuddered and pumped his load directly down into my guts. When I was told to stand, a wet stain of pre-cum darkened the front of my gym shorts and my ass ached to be touched. 

LOCKTOBER 2018 - It’s Coming

Welcome to day four!  As usual, continue with your assignments from the first few days.  Today I would like you to do two things: 1) continue researching chastity devices; and 2) purchase a small to medium butt plug that you can consistently wear for extended periods of time.

Chastity devices.  There is no right or wrong answer concerning which chastity device you should purchase.  Having said this, I would like you to make sure that you purchase a cage that strikes the right balance between cleanability and restriction.  Many of the easier to clean devices allow a lot of open areas in which you could potentially touch your dicklet.  I recommend a more closed device in which there is limited capability to touch the penis itself.  For this reason a holy trainer or cb-6000s would be better than, say, a ringed device with lots of openings.

Another thing to keep in mind is ring size (the ring that goes around the scrotum) and penis tube size.  As they continue with chastity, some subs find that their anatomy changes; they may need to purchase a new ring or to find a smaller penis tube.  For this reason, some subs find the CB series beneficial, because it comes with a choice of ring sizes.  

Finally, with respect to sizing of the penis tube, @cagedjock and many others experienced with chastity will tell you that smaller is better!  Do not exaggerate your penis size.  Having space in the penis tube will only cause discomfort when you become erect.  You want a small tube that will limit your capability of achieving an erection.  Take note of the fact, while conducting your measurements, that your penis is likely not at its most flaccid.  You will need to account for this in your measurements.  Read Denying Thumper’s advice on the proper way to measure: https://denyingthumper.com/2015/01/05/how-to-measure-for-a-male-chastity-device/   

@gayboykink also has very helpful FAQs regarding purchasing and maintaining a cage: http://gayboykink.tumblr.com/chastity

Do not rush your decision, but do try to order one soon so that you are able to get locked up for the rest of your 30 day challenge.

Butt plugs.  I, personally, am skeptical of a sub that plays with its ass and often uses dildos and prostate milking devices.  On the one hand, anal play does indeed help train a sub to loosen up its pussy to accommodate big dicks.  It also helps a sub to redirect the center of focus from its dicklet to its pussy.  Even so, a sub needs to learn that its pleasure comes not from its pussy but rather from serving Men.  For this reason, only on rare occasions will I permit you to finger yourself or use a dildo.  If you need an outlet for your horniness, you will need to serve real Men.  

Having said this, it remains your duty to constantly be working on increasing your horniness.  Butt plugs are an excellent way of achieving this.  Today, look at purchasing a butt plug–something durable like glass–that you would be capable of wearing for hours at a time (nothing enormous!).  The plug will stimulate your prostate and drive you nuts, but it will not be enough to satisfy you.  You will need a real Man to get satisfaction.

Start wearing it for as long as you comfortably can and gradually increase the time.  Make a habit out of wearing it regularly.

Congrats on day one.  Hopefully it wasn’t too tough?  At this point you may be feeling a little horny, but certainly it should be manageable.  

Assignments of the Day

Research chastity cages.  As a heads up, by the start of next week I will be asking you to have purchased and received a chastity cage, if you can afford it.  This week is about getting used to being horny.  Next week is about getting used to being locked up.  While your mind is still clear and not yet desperately horny, take a moment today to research different kinds of chastity devices and the pros and cons of each.  Later this week we will discuss proper ways of measuring and fitting the device.  You will want to consider whether you’d rather start with a cheaper starter cage or invest in a better, more comfortable (yet more expensive) device such as the holy trainer.  Keep in mind that some cages take a while to ship.  Denying Thumper’s blog is the ultimate source for reviews and advice.  Start there.

Watch porn.  Your other assignment today is one you probably already do regularly: watch porn.  Set aside a designated amount of time today (and ideally each day) to watch porn–let’s say an hour.  You will watch your porn with your hands completely away from your body.  For this week, you will not touch yourself.  Only watch.  I want you to focus on videos that showcase the Top’s pleasure and conceal the bottom’s dicklet.  Focus on how you desperately desire to pleasure the Top.  Focus on how good the Top’s dick would feel in your boy pussy.  You are not permitted to think about cumming.  Immediately turn off the porn at the end of your session and continue your day as usual; this will prevent you from getting carried away.

Continue practicing the steps from Day One.  

Have fun!