Chastity Coach

I’ve been working on some gay chastity fiction. It’s intended to make anyone in chastity even hornier--hope it helps! Thought I’d share it in parts and see what people think. Heavy on the sex and light on plot--but there is a plot at least. Feel free to make story requests for future stuff or to share. I might eventually self-publish it and other stories if people seem to like it. 

Thank You for Your Service is the tentative title. There may be a military scene ;) Truck stop glory hole scene coming soon ... and more construction scenes ...

Chapter 1, Part 1

Alexander was having one of those days. That’s what he called the days where his eyes lingered on every guy who went past. Alexander hated to admit it, but that was every day.

A new guy went past. Probably a day laborer, maybe a contractor. Alexander had never seen him before, but he wanted to see more. He zoomed in on the crotch, a sizable, girthy cock swaddled in tight jeans crested with an enormous belt buckle. It was a golden belt buckle (not real gold, but who cared) in the shape of antlers of a large stag. Alexander jerked his head away then took a second look. The belt buckle dared him to look.

Years ago, Alexander’s friends bought him a “cage” as a joke—the smallest chastity cage they could find. Alex, which his friends called him (though he preferred Alexander), pretended to be grossed out, but on the inside, he was intrigued. Something turned on inside him. A switch flipped. Since then, he found himself insatiably horny and incredibly pliable.

He’d look at the men in front of him, lust after their large cocks, then imagine how tiny his was in comparison. He dreamed of the men—Men (capital M, underlined, highlighted and italicized)—who’d catch him looking or notice his lack of bulge and mutter fag under their breath. He wished they’d say it to his face, and loud. Two minutes later, he’d be on his knees sucking cock … but that was in his dream world.

Alexander imagined whoever had come up with the “tall glass of water” expression had golden belt buckle guy in mind. A guy with a body like that, and the cock and cockiness to match … it 100% teased him … to the point of having multiple mental orgasms at work. This guy knew he could turn every man gay, and he loved all the attention. He’d catch Alexander peeking, convey in a single glance and snarl, “I’m off limits, you queer,” then he’d walk off into the night and on to another job, leaving Alexander with nothing but Can’t I have you? Fuck me horniness.

At that point, Alexander would imagine the nasty things he’d do to get in the same room with HIM alone. As the precum began dribbling, he’d snap out of his daydream and run off to clean up.

Unfortunately, this is what happened to Alexander nearly every day since starting chastity. On the hardest and horniest days at work, Alexander would slip a few ice cubes from the water cooler in his pants (when nobody was looking, of course) and let the freezing feeling take his mind off cock. Being in architecture meant being close to lots of hot guys (and even some not-so-great-looking guys, but Alexander didn’t mind as long as they were Alpha). He always felt distant from his coworkers in construction. He’d be on job sites all the time. He knew his fair share about crown molding, tile, hardwood floors, and shiplap, but he always felt like the men knew something was “different” about him.

Did they catch him salivating at the sight of their cocks? Did they know he secretly desired to be fucked and used by all of them every. single. day? When they took a piss behind the construction site, did they see him in the corner of their eye looking? Did they know that he wanted to be the one under them taking all their piss? In the dirt, looking up in their angry eyes, golden piss raining down on him. Why waste piss on dirt?

Having not cum in several years (Alexander made a vow to never jack off and never cum except while getting fucked), Alexander feared finding himself on his knees in front of his coworkers, uncontrollably acting out his fantasies. The repercussions of doing so terrified and excited him.

I’m considering getting back into writing new posts (chastity and sub challenges + erotic stories).

Trying to get a sense of how many people still follow my blog. Let me know by liking this post or sending me a message! 

It’s been a long time since I last posted.  I used to have just a few hundred followers and suddenly tons of people are following me.  Thanks everyone!

It’s been a crazy year.  I got my doctorate, moved to Chicago, got a job.  I just quit my job (because I hated it).  Now I’m planning to move abroad.  (Followers in Asia, hit me up!)  

Sorry for the slow response.

I haven’t really posted specific guidelines on how often / how long to wear the butt plug mostly because I feel that it is very person-specific.  For advice on how to wear the plug long term (most hours of the day), I think @newboiontheblock is your best resource.  He is the butt plug expert! And I find his blog really hot.  See this post of his, for example.

Thanks!  I appreciate the feedback.  I’m curious how you did your first 30 days.  Did you have a master to guide you?  How long have you been in chastity so far?

Hey everyone.  So, I’ve rolled out a new challenge called The Underwear Game.  If any of you want a chance to own a nasty, used pair of underwear worn by me, click Here.  

It’s totally free.  All I ask is that you purchase the pair of underwear you want me to wear and provide enough for shipping and handling for me to return it you after I’m done wearing it.

 Week 2: Dom Appreciation Week

This week will be like a week-long Valentine’s day.  Your assignment this week is to show appreciation for the Doms and Men in your life.  

Each and every day this week, you will express your appreciation for Doms and superior Men by complimenting Them, servicing Them, giving Them gifts, and/or doing chores for Them to make Their lives a little easier and more relaxing.  

You must perform this assignment each day this week.  No exceptions!  I’m providing a list here of potential ways to show your appreciation.  Feel free to add on to it.

Be on call every day this week to service a primary Dom or a select few Men whenever they require it

Write small notes of appreciation that expound upon all the great qualities of your Dom

Do all of your Men’s chores and errands.  Cook and clean for Them, shop for Them, rub Their feet and give Them massages.  Make Their entire week feel like a vacation

Purchase your Dom a gift as a token of your gratitude and respect

Compliment Men at every chance you get

If you have no Doms in your life, find other Men to appreciate.  In line at the store, offer to buy the items of the Man in front of you or behind you.  Offer to cut your neighbor’s grass or to do some other good deed.  Do your roommate’s chores.  (There’s no need to say you’re a sub, if you don’t feel comfortable.  Just tell Them you felt like doing something nice for a change.)

Make yourself look extra sexy and slutty this week.  Be “eye candy” for the Men you serve

Offer to be a Man’s masturbation toy for the week.  Whenever He desires to cum, you will service Him.  You will do so unobtrusively.  Do not speak unless spoken to, and do not wear out your welcome.  You are simply there to make Him cum.  Immediately leave when he is finished with your services.  Be sure to say thank you.  (In fact, I’m looking for a regular sub to do this for me.  Hmu if you’re interested..)

Ask your Men how you can make Their lives easier.  Do what They request

As part of the new Chastity Challenge part two, I want to start rolling out suggestions and tips for Doms as well.  In this tip I want to discuss something rather unique--which is chastity for Doms.

The purpose of chastity for subs as compared to Doms is very different.  Whereas subs are expected to remain chaste in order to better service their Masters, Doms, on the other hand, may find benefits in using chastity to enhance Their own horniness (thus enhancing Their own pleasure).  The result will be much more animalistic sex the next time you have it.

How to practice chastity as a Dom

Do not wear a chastity cage.  Chastity cages are for subs to prevent them from self-touching.  Your cock should be visible, and it should make all subs jealous and thirsty.

Touch yourself as much as you want.  Edge yourself.  Do everything except cum.  Or, of course, have your subs do the touching for you.   

Keep your testosterone and horniness running extremely high.  Save up a big load and boast about how much you will cum the next time you fuck your sub.

Use your own chastity to frustrate your subs.  Especially those of you who get serviced regularly will eventually notice that your subs may get complacent and begin taking your dick for granted; if this happens, it is time to teach your subs that access to your dick is a privilege, not a right.  Consider refusing them access to your dick for awhile to frustrate them and to teach them a lesson.  They will long more and more to please you once again and to have all your cum.  By the time you are ready to cum, your subs will be as horny and obedient as ever.  

Pay attention to the sensations that emerge from not cumming for awhile (e.g. a sense of fullness in the balls, extreme horniness, spontaneous erections, etc).  As a result, you will be able to train your subs with more precision and they will respect you for getting a small glimpse of what they’re going through.

When the horniness and built up cum seems to reach an unbearable peak, it’s time to fuck.  Have fun!  

Welcome to Chastity Challenge Part Two!  For the next few months I will be posting one new theme per week.  These themes will offer extra guidance, reinforcement, and assignments for subs who have successfully completed the 30 Day Chastity Challenge or who already have significant experience with chastity.  Due to the thematic approach to Part Two, subs can enter the challenge at any time and can pursue any of the themes in any order.  Warning: this post is a long one!  Hope you learn a lot from it, though.  

I assume and expect that all subs will be following a number of fundamental rules laid out in the 30 day challenge:

Keep your body smooth and ready to be used at all times

No touching/looking at your penis  (Your dicklet will be concealed and/or locked up, and you will piss sitting down; you may only touch yourself briefly while showering)

Keep all physical contact with yourself to a minimum unless given permission by me or another Master

Constantly work toward improving your body (through working out, exercising, eating healthy) in order to better appeal to the Men you serve

Work to maintain optimal levels of horniness at all times  (Stay as horny as possible without compromising will power.  Ideally you will achieve this horniness through activities that do not require you to touch yourself: porn, kegels, servicing Men, etc.  Playing with your pussy, nipples, etc. should only be a last resort exercise if truly needed to peak your horniness)

In addition to these fundamental ground rules of chastity, I will be implementing a new rule for Part 2:

Each day you will write in marker or pen the number of days you’ve been in chastity.  You will write this number as well as the date directly above your caged dicklet.  (Using a post-it note is also acceptable although less ideal.)

Upon writing the date and number of days in chastity, you will take a photo.  Your pic should be at least a 3/4′s frontal body pic, showing most of your body.  You will also take a pic from behind, showing your back and ass. 

You will save these pics each day of the challenge, and I may randomly require you to submit these pics to me on any given day.  Consider posting weekly progress pics on your own blog to show everyone your progress!  Send me your first pic upon starting the challenge.

In time, you will be able to recognize and track progress you are making not only with your chastity but also with your exercise routine.  You will begin to associate the positive changes in your body with the length of time you have been in chastity.  

This habit may take some time to get used to, but eventually it will become second nature to you.

Week One: Habits

The theme for this week will be somewhat remedial.  As many of you have likely been maintaining your chastity on your own, without the guidance of a Master, it seems opportune to start part two of the challenge with some guidance on habit adjustment.  Perhaps you’ve fallen into a few bad habits that require remediation.  Or perhaps you’re ready to cultivate some more positive chastity-related routines.  

Recently I listened to an audio version of a book entitled The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg, and this got me thinking about ways of incorporating habit training into chastity.  The book, though quite businessy, has a lot of practical advice on habit adjustment within the appendix.  

What I learned from the book is that it is extremely hard to stop a bad habit without replacing it with an alternative.  Likewise, I learned that some habits have profound synergistic effects--for example, exercise programs seem to trigger more and more good habits in other areas (such as better eating and sleeping habits).  

In this post I’d like to explain the basic structure of habits as I’ve learned it from the book.  Following this, your assignment for the week will be to identify bad habits to replace with good chastity-related habits.  I will also have you brainstorm new habits that may have a synergistic effect with your chastity lifestyle.

The Structure of Habits

A habit is, in essence, a routine.  It is something you do repeatedly and oftentimes automatically, without thinking.  For example, you may take the same route to work each day without even thinking about it or questioning why you do not take an alternative route.  Sometimes this unthinking quality of habits can be good--for example, the habit of not cumming or never touching yourself.  Subs in chastity are better off when they never even think of considering the possibility of cumming or touching themselves.

But oftentimes habits entail a cue and reward structure.  What triggers a routine to start?  (This is the cue.)  And what is the reward for responding to the cue?  Habits are tough to overcome often because they entail a reward (e.g. a good feeling, relaxation, happiness, etc.) that we end up craving.  And because we crave something, it makes it much more difficult to break out of the habit loop.

Take masturbation, for instance.  Why do so many people masturbate?  Because it is a habit.  Each night, for instance, some guys masturbate because it helps relax them and gets them to sleep easier.  Bedtime becomes the cue.  And the reward is relaxation.  And because it feels good, the habit gets repeated night after night.  Guys in this situation may come to masturbate unthinkingly; they eventually take cumming for granted.  They may even associate their craving with horniness when, rather, it is merely a craving for a specific reward (i.e. relief, relaxation).   

Your assignment for this week is to identify bad habits and to consider new good habits you’d like to make. 

The bad habits may have emerged during your chastity training.  (For example, perhaps you touch yourself sometimes when you know you really shouldn’t.  Perhaps playing with dildos and fingering yourself has become a crutch for you when you feel too tired to find Men to service.)

Other bad habits may not be chastity-related, but you can learn to replace them with positive chastity-related habits.  (For instance, lets say you want to quit smoking.  Instead of having a cigarette, spend several minutes looking at porn until the craving passes.  Or spend time arranging a nice hookup instead.)

Likewise, there may be some good habits you’ll want to cultivate.  Exercising regularly, for instance, will spread positive effects to other areas of your life.  For instance, looking good may gain you more self-confidence, which will get more Men interested in your services.  

When investigating your habits, ask yourself the following questions:

What is the routine I want to fix?  What triggers my habit?  What time does it happen?  What am I doing when my habit is triggered?  How do I feel at the moment just before I engage in the habit (e.g. bored, horny, unthinking, etc.)?  In what environment is the habit triggered?  Who else is around?  What activity was I doing immediately prior to engaging in the habit (e.g. watching porn, fantasizing, etc.)

When I engage in X habit, how do I feel afterwards?  What reward or benefit do I get out of it?  Is the reward truly worth it?  

What are some new habits I’d like to cultivate instead (e.g. servicing more Men, improving my body more, becoming more submissive)?  How can I replace a bad habit with a better one while still getting a similar reward?  For example, if touching your cage relieves some horniness, what is another way you could more positively relieve that horniness (e.g. give a Man a blowjob, exercise, train your pussy to accommodate bigger dicks)?