“you need to start thinking about building a family” no what I need is to have the money to buy house and decorate it just like I’ve always dreamed of

nothing is real and then all of a sudden everything is very real with no warning

Those who think that wisdom and whimsy are mutually exclusive have neither. It's vitally important to do the right thing when the consequences are dire, and to do a whole bunch of utterly frivolous silly dumb shit when it doesn't matter what you do.

the problem is i really do love staying up until one billion o'clock. it just cant be helped

i would rather see the information for an event handwritten in sharpie on a paper towel than see another AI generated flyer

it is so annoying being so self aware about all my issues like okay what now girl

any other girls feel a permanent sense of unbelonging no matter where they are or who they are with

Not that I think all marriages are doomed but when deciding who to marry you should ask yourself “is this someone I’d want to divorce?” As in, is this someone I believe would be mature and fair, even when they’re upset and don’t particularly like me at the moment. Is this someone I could continue to trust while going through an adversarial process? And if the answer is no, don’t marry them.