i love autistic age regressors (and being one too)
โข i love how echolalia turns into play (quoting shows, copying tones, animal noises, favorite words)๐ง
โข i love how stimming and regression blend together like for me oral stimming with a paci๐ผ
โข i love how routines & sameness can become part of regression
โข i love how sameness doesnโt feel boring it feels safe in age re๐งธ
โข i love how we build very specific little setups exactly how we need them & thatโs what lets us relax
โข i love how regression can make the world feel more predictable when everything else feels too loud or confusing!!!๐ซ
โข i love how special interests come into regression with us
โข i love how we can play by lining things up, sorting, stacking, repeating & that is real play!
โข i love how parallel play feels natural for us just existing near someone safely without pressure :) age re really allows for this even in online spaces๐ซ
โข i love how our โlittle selvesโ arenโt always fully different from our big selves but i also love when they are
โข i love how we can be extremely sensitive to many things and how regression can soften that intensity (sometimes at leastโฆ lol)
โข i love how certain textures can instantly calm us
โข i love how safe foods can become grounding rituals
โข i love how our bodies show our feelings more
โข i love how some of us need more support when regressed and some donโt & neither is โbetterโ (this goes for not regressed too)๐ฉท
โข i love how regression can be the only time we feel fully unmasked ๐ญ
โข and that it exists as a space where we donโt have to perform
โข i love how trust means everything (who we regress around, who sees us like that)๐
โข i love being an autistic age regressor!
โข i love that even when i get overwhelmed i have a space in myself that at times feels gentler even with big upset feelings
โข i love the autism spectrum and communityโพ๏ธ
โข i love that i have seen so many of us in age re spaces
โข i love us even though sometimes itโs the hardest thing to deal with!โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
April is Autism Acceptance Month and I just want to take a moment to talk about autistic age regression in a way thatโs rooted in love. Itโs not the same for everyone because autism is a spectrum and so is how we experience regression but thatโs exactly the point! Thereโs no one โrightโ way to be autistic or to need comfort. I see you & I love you. ๐ฅฐ I know autism & regression arenโt always the easiest things to deal with but weโre still here, doing our best which is what matters. Itโs okay to struggle!! Weโve got this even on the days it doesnโt feel like it. ๐โพ๏ธ