I have a theory that some writers are scared to write characters of color (specially brown/dark skinned ones) because their go-to “tomato” comparisons for awkwardness or embarrassment don’t apply.
People of all skin colors blush, including darker skinned individuals. The color might not be as stark as on a lighter person, but it still happens. I promise. But some people take these differences and jump to racist conclusions like:
[insert non-white actor] is terrible at showing emotions. Their expressions are so bland.
I don’t personally characterize [insert non-white character canonically described as awkward by the creator] as socially awkward. They just seem annoying and mean.
If you find yourself putting down a character/actor of color for displaying awkward traits differently than a white character/actor, you should definitely reevaluate some of your biases against darker skin and people of color (re: colorism & racism). For darker people, physical gestures like altered speech and fumbling might be better indicators of discomfort and awkwardness than skin flushing.
Cultural differences are also important to consider. Just because a white character cries in a given situation doesn’t mean a character of color will too. Different cultures can express similar emotions in a variety of ways. SO DO YOUR RESEARCH!
If you’re writing from the perspective of a character of color, it might make more sense to focus on their internal sensations. Instead of talking about how “red in the face” they are, describe the build up of heat in their face. The ringing in their ears. The pit in their stomach.
Found these insanely helpful tips from @writingwithcolor. Everyone should see it as their responsibility to increase representation in fiction. Whether that’s by supporting/reposting creators of color or doing the research to increase rep in your own fics, the choice is up to you. (Personally, I think there’s room to choose both.)
