so im 22 and I've had sex before but I have literally never kissed anyone, ever. Usually when I have sex, we cum and he leaves but I've never had any kind of relationship and now I'm terrified to even try it. (Because I would probably suck at it.) initiating sex isn't hard but I don't know how to go in for the kiss I guess. Do you have any advice in case I ever get the chance to do it?
First of all you will not suck at it. You’re going to be amazing. You just have to do what’s right for you. Have you ever thought about initiating activity with somebody and just saying you are looking for a lot of making out?
Kissing can be just as great as having an orgasm. It’s wonderful to be close to somebody. I think for you the easy answer is just connecting with people and making that one of the things that you really want to do.
And as a relationship comes closer for you, you’re going to be great at it.
I've never reblogged one of @temptingdominance answers with some input from myself because he answers so informatively that it is never needed from anyone. But I just thought I would share something that the guy who asked the question could relate to. I also was worried about passionately kissing a man for the first time. Which is crazy in a funny way, I wasn't nervous about being naked or sucking his dick, it was the kissing that I overthought. I didn't know what to do with my lips or my tongue, would he think I was stupid for not knowing how to kiss?? But when It came down to it, I just rolled with it. All my worrying was for nothing. We kissed, and we kissed gooood. I never told him I was nervous or that I hadn't kissed before because it puts more of a spotlight on it and that's not good. Anyway, he said I was a really 'sensual' kisser. And he was none the wiser to my worries. So moral is, just go with it, if it's a messy kiss, I'm sure he'll like it and if its a slow kiss, I'm sure he'll like that too. Hope that helps as well.
