Encanto Fan

Being human is a fact that will always remain.

Or does it just feed his insecurity that he has to prove he belongs?

Does Diane actually make things better? Or unintentionally worse?

I grew up believing that if I cared about what everyone says about me, id drive myself insane and as I grew I realized that I was right.

Wolf constantly cares about what people think of him, and instead of learning that what people think of him doesn't matter.

Why do people assume that Diane is the one who would have the most connection with Kitty Kat?

Yeah, I get it, they were friends in the books. But the final version has them barely interacting beyond physically fighting.

Like, in universe wise, they don't know each other like that. Even if Diane would try to connect, I don’t see her interacting with someone, who in her perspective, has shown no signs of redemption.

And it said:

That uncertainty makes sense, especially with the way The Bad Guys and The Bad Guys 2 frame their relationship.

A lot of Diane’s love for Mr. Wolf is expressed through belief in his potential:

“You can be more.”

“You can change.”

“You can do good.”

That’s caring. But it’s also directional. It points toward a future version of him.

So it can leave open the question:

> “Would she still love him if he stopped trying to prove himself?”

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Why this feels emotionally unclear

You’ve been focusing on the difference between:

loving someone as a person

versus loving the possibility they represent

And with Diane, the movies often blur those together.

Her empathy tends to sound like:

> “I see the good in you.”

Which is beautiful in one sense.

But it can also imply:

> “The most lovable part of you is the part moving away from who you were.”

That’s why it feels uncertain.

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Compare that to the kind of love you’ve been describing

The dynamic you seem drawn to—like Husk and Angel Dust in Hazbin Hotel—isn’t centered on transformation.

It’s centered on recognition.

Not:

> “I love who you could become.”

But:

> “I see who you already are beneath all of this.”

That feels safer. Less conditional.

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The tension with Diane

I don’t think the films clearly answer your question.

Because Diane does care about Wolf genuinely.

But the story keeps tying that care to:

growth

reform

proving goodness

becoming accepted

So it becomes hard to separate:

> “I love you”

from:

> “I love watching you become better.”

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Why that matters so much for Wolf

If Wolf already fears:

> “I have to perform to be accepted”

then a relationship built too heavily around potential can accidentally reinforce that fear.

Even unintentionally.

He may start to feel:

> “The most lovable version of me is the version that succeeds at being good.”

That’s a painful pressure.

And honestly, the fact that you can’t tell is probably because the movies themselves don’t fully distinguish:

loving someone’s humanity from

loving their transformation arc

Wolf knew how to treat people.

Another thing that would be interesting is if they're aware of how the world see them, and they let themselves be misunderstood because they know they don't owe an explanation.

Because I looked at their mug shots and apparently they are both 6'2.

Also if you re-watch the movie, you can see they're similar in hight.

I get why people did it, and a lot of people have written her as bigger than Wolf, probably because of the muscles.

If you ship Fluffyvenom, go right ahead, even if it isn't canon.

But just because Snake likes a girl, doesn't mean you can be rude about it. He is allowed to like a girl if he likes a girl !

Someone once said, "I am allowed to feel what I feel."

And yes, I am sad not many characters in animated movies are part of the LGBTQ+ community.

But it's ok to be straight just as much as it is to be gay.

(Also, he might be bisexual. WE DON'T KNOW!)

I just believe that it's completely ok that Snake likes a girl.

I respect those that like Fluffyvenom and I hope that you can respect Doomsnake.

Also

Respect for the LGBTQ+ community