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Hey!

This is a great question!

So, when affirming, you do not need to say your affirmations out loud. You can just say them in your mind, because affirmations are actually just supposed to be new thoughts that you think in order to replace the old thoughts.

You CAN say them out loud, because sometimes it helps you to add more passion and focus on them a bit more, BUT you do still need to make sure that you are thinking with your affirmations when you think of your desire as well.

So, for me personally, as I have mentioned before, I am currently getting commitment from my SP, so this is what my desire is, but I also actually prioritise self-concept. My personal routine is pretty much 90% self-concept and 10% SP. I affirm primarily for my self-concept because it keeps me in my power, takes away any care of 3D circumstances that would bother the old me, and makes me see my manifestation from less of an emotionally attached POV. Basically, it makes me feel much less like my manifestation is 'big' and 'hard' to achieve. It takes the manifestation off the pedestal and puts ME on the pedestal. Because it reduces resistance, I end up believing so much stronger that my manifestation is happening, no matter what, and this allows me to much more vividly step into the feeling/state of the wish fulfilled. I found that when I would affirm primarily for my SP, I was putting myself in a state of desperation and neediness for him, creating too much attachment to the 3D and worrying about checking, and I was putting him on the pedestal, when I should be the one on there - in my power, and the priority.

I will explain my approach to affirming below, however, I will say straight off the bat that everything revolves around mental diet and consistently only allowing myself to think with my affirmations when my desire or any doubts come to mind.

I affirm for my self-concept (in my head) literally whenever I get the chance. It works like magic. When I'm washing the dishes, when I'm in the car, when I'm going for a walk, when I'm in the shower, when I'm watching a TV show or movie where the plotline tries to trigger me, etc. Whenever I think of my desire I link my self-concept in there too, because remember that YOU are the priority here and that your SP will prioritise you if YOU prioritise yourself mentally first.

On days where I have free time, or if I feel like my emotions are running a bit wild, I meditate for about an hour (usually in the afternoon or evening) and affirm (in my head) for self-concept, some SP, and even visualise. I sometimes use EFT to tap out any emotions and anxiety and neutralise myself.

I affirm (in my head) for my SP pretty much only whenever I think about him all through the day, every day, (which is very often, so it adds up haha). I also affirm at night for a few minutes before I go to bed. HOWEVER, when I affirm for my SP, I always bring it back to my self concept. I do this every single time he comes to my mind or any kind of doubt about myself, my love life, fears about it, or thoughts about the past come to my mind. I start affirming for my SP, and link it back to self-concept, then I just do this on repeat until I feel better. It doesn't usually take long for me to start to feel better after reminding myself that I am in control.

At night, I go to sleep listening to subliminals with all my affirmations (that I made) and I also repeat my self-concept affirmations to myself as I drift off. As I do this, I sometimes try to imagine my SP being loving with me as I fall asleep. Also, if I wake up at any point in the night, or if I wake up too early and need to go back to sleep, I switch into affirming mode again and affirm as I fall asleep again.

Whenever I feel any sort of doubt or really need a kick in the ass to get me back on my A-game, I like to RAMPAGE my affirmations and basically say them as if I'm telling myself off and giving myself a pep talk. I like to do THIS out loud, as it really channels my emotion and gets me really hyped up to keep my shit together.

For anyone who wants to know what MY affirmations are, I will share them below (note that the brackets are words that I usually include, but may just skip over sometimes):

Self Concept:

I am the prize

I am the only option

I am loved (how I want to be loved)

I am chased

I am chosen

I am committed to (properly)

(I am a master at manifesting)

SP:

SP chose me!

SP committed to me so easily!

SP is so in love with me (that it's pathetic)

SP is literally my official boyfriend now!

You don't need a specific routine or to affirm for a specific amount of time. If I HAD to prescribe you a certain amount of time to loop your affirmations for, I'd say 3-5 minutes each time. HOWEVER, if you are keeping a mental diet (which involves saying your affirmations whenever your desire comes to mind) you will pretty much end up affirming so much throughout the day that by the end of the day, it would add up to a crazy amount of time. You just want to make sure that you are training yourself to think as if EVERY TIME you think of your desire so that you can train your mind to switch the story and thought process.

So you need to affirm and think as if EVERY DAY, WHENEVER YOUR DESIRE COMES TO MIND at the VERY LEAST, as well as when you fall asleep at night! If you want your desire to come faster, you should make affirming a priority.

***LOOONG POST***

So, I kind of had a breakthrough while listening to an excerpt of one of Neville’s lectures last night. I’ll link it below. I suddenly felt relaxed and comforted, I felt that I truly understood what it meant to live in the end and the power that “I Am” holds.

A method that Neville talks about is “I remember when…” and when I used it, it completely changed how I felt about my desires and helped me understand what it really feels like to live in the end. For example, let’s say you’re manifesting money. Here’s a direct excerpt from my script last night, “I remember when I used to struggle paying my bills on time, now everything is on autopay! Now, I don’t think twice about payments or spending money because I know I have more than enough for whatever I want. Now, I love spending money because I know that everything I spend comes back to me a hundredfold.”

I constantly say “I remember when...” now lol! Why did this change how I felt/thought about my desires? Because I realized that I largely thought about my desires as things that would happen in the future, not as something that had already happened. I realized that I was visualizing in future tense instead of past tense. And I think this is one of the many reasons a lot of you are so insecure, and why you so easily are upset by your current 3D. You look for evidence of your manifestation, you focus on what is happening outside of you instead of what’s happening inside of you. How can you search for evidence of something unfolding right now… if it has already unfolded in the past? And if this is true and you’re confident in who you are… why would you feel the need to search in the first place? This is where the importance of self concept comes in.

Your self concept dictates so much. How you think about yourself and your life reflects in your inner conversations, how you move, how you behave, how you interact with others, and so on. Once you have shifted your mind, your reality has no choice but to shift as well! Your 3D is a reflection of what is within you. You guys are aaaaalways worried about your current circumstances. I’ll tell you succinctly why they do not matter. Your current circumstances are a collection of past assumptions, right? The future has yet to happen and is a direct consequence of the things we assume now. Which begs the question, what do you believe now? And how will those beliefs shape your future? Do you understand that in your current physical reality, everything you assume to be, and everything you desire, is within you right now?

Thus the power of “I Am” comes into play. I know SATS is a very popular method amongst the community, I use it myself! But now that I really understand what I Am means, I can’t look at anything else the same. I encourage you to do your own research on it! You are one with God and God is one with you. If anything is possible for God, then, isn’t anything possible for you? Which is why you always see people say, “I am the god of my reality.” You are!

From Neville’s book, At Your Command: “Dwell upon just being and saying, “I AM”, “I AM”, “I AM”, to yourself. Continue to declare to yourself that you just are. Do not condition this declaration, just continue to FEEL yourself to be and without warning you will find yourself slipping the anchor that tied you to the shallow of your problems and moving out into the deep.”

Don’t try to apply logic to manifestation, it just doesn’t work that way. Whatever you desire, see it in your mind, and believe “I Am”. Speak it, have faith in it, drown in it. Now, that’s not me saying that you have to believe in every single thing you try to manifest. You’ll read success stories all the time of people saying that they didn’t 100% believe in something. And I think that’s okay. I don’t think you should try to force change nor should you manipulate yourself or the physical reality. What I really want to emphasize here is that… you are not separate from your desires, your future, the universe, God, or your fellow man. The more you know who and what you are (I Am), the more confident you feel in knowing that you and only you are the creator of your reality. If you believe this, then I think that’s the only belief that matters. What do you think?

From Neville’s Your Faith is Your Fortune: "Before you have any visible proof that you are, you will, from the deep conviction which you have felt fixed within you, know that you are; and so, without waiting for the confirmation of your senses, you will cry, 'It is finished!'."

So, to sum it all up: What does it mean to live in the end? It means there is no lack! It means you do not worry, you do not need. You don’t think or manifest from a place of lack, you do it from your “I AM” state… which is God. Never forget that creation is finished. You are (I AM) whatever you assume you are. Living in the end means there is nothing more to do because it is already done and it has already happened. It really is that simple.

I hope this makes sense and I hope you enjoyed this read. If you have any questions that were not answered here, please ask. I obviously don’t know everything, these are my current opinions. 💓

THIS IS ACTUALLY SO FUCKING BEAUTIFUL OMG GIRL YOU HAVE ME UGLY CRYING!!!!!

what did i tell y’all?? anything is POSSIBLE!!!!!!

**reminder: i will not answer questions about techniques, identical questions asked to other blogs, nor questions where its clear you havent read through this section. thank you for understanding !!

“Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man’s attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself.” — Neville Goddard

“how can i manifest?”

by changing yourself/changing your mind.

“but how do i change myself?”

turn your back on the 3D and choose to focus on your inner world, I AM is the only thing that is real — its what creates. change your feeling of “I” and all else will follow.

“what technique should i use?”

whichever you want, it truly doesn’t matter — because really, you only need yourself. watch your inner conversations which can be monitored through a mental diet. you can approach this any way you like !

“what if it doesnt work? what if ive been persisting and nothing is happening?”

you havent changed yourself. the changed version of you wouldnt ask a question like that. :)

“what if i’ve been persisting and things got worse?”

that’s normal and not a big deal, though it may feel like one sometimes. keep persisting — imagining creates reality, your mental efforts must come to pass.

“so i have to take responsibility for my inner world and stop repeating the old story, even though its difficult for me to do so?”

exactly. :) remember its okay to slip up ! but its more important you take that responsibility and get back on track when youre ready. remember, difficult doesnt mean impossible.

“but the victim mindset is comfortable/so hard to get out of.”

i know, trust me. but at some point we have to dive in and practice staying faithful to our desired state.

“so there’s no one to change but self right? i have to change MY mind to see changes reflected back to me? im at the center of my world — its just reflecting myself back to me?”

just wanted to say i want to go in a bit of a different direction with this blog now that ive been away, i had time to reflect on what feels right to me. i contemplated leaving this blog because i didnt like the direction it felt to be going in, but i found a solution so that i can still be happy here, still help yall (which i truly do love to do !!), but also allowing me to stay true to who i am and my perspective on this journey.

at the end of the day, the law isnt a technique. theres no affirmation or SATS session or anything else thats going to save you. YOU have to save YOU. can these tools help you ? absolutely. but you have to realize theres no one to change but self — we use these tools to change us. not the 3D. the law isnt a quick fix — its a lifestyle.

as i was away, i strengthened my understanding of the law and what works best for me and so that’s what i will relay on this blog. my only focus is self:

“all is within”

on this blog, we practice the art of imagining because we know imagining creates reality. we are willing to put our victimhood aside and step up to the plate with full responsibility as creators of our reality. imagining creates reality — and if you truly know this and accept it as true, then you will not waste moments actively choosing to imagine undesirably. of course we slip up, we’re human. but we choose the best for ourselves as long as we remember to. we get up again and we persist — we dont give up on ourselves and we choose the new story for ourselves. we arent victims, we are victors. no more settling for less in our minds. we can have anything we want if we are willing to change our minds.

as for asks and DMs, i do have some new guidelines. im most likely not going to be answering asks that have been asked to other blogs because you only need one answer. so if i see someone else has answered the same ask, please understand. i will not be answering asks about techniques, you can check my technique tag which has tons of technique questions archived. you will definitely find the answer to your question there. like i said, it doesnt matter what technique you use. theres no perfect technique. the only thing that matters is changing self. if you refuse to change self — nothing will ever help you.

im not a teacher of the law nor a coach — at the end of the day im just like yall. everything i learned i learned from the resources i share with yall. i just love the law, i understand the concepts and i love helping yall understand them too. but at the end of the day we’re ALL masters at the art of imagining.

i really appreciate the law as a lifestyle, as a daily practice to change self and become who you want to be. which in turn, brings you the experiences you want to experience. it brings me joy to appreciate the law in this way — so i hope all that have been on this journey with me this far can enjoy the new feel of my blog !!

To be honest, I think the negative outrage post towards you/Angel may somehow be helpful in a way. Definitely not saying bashing Angel is good or positive at all (please treat everyone with kindness and respect even if you don't know them, never know what they're going through) She's such a sweetheart too. @divineangelbee

See it from the perspective as "I'm going to test your belief on your self-concept and the Law of Assumption." For those who saw that "negative post" and started doubting their manifestations, take it as a sign "Oh, there is my proof/now I know I need to do inner work." 

Manifesting isn't hard at all. It's honestly instant, but the part that people have a misconception to why Manifesting takes time is because we have to work within (self-concept) and its challenging. We've developed logic that denies Manifesting because logic depends on and associates with the 3D reality. Especially for those who have/had a negative core belief that's developed overtime. It is quite the progress to change your inner subconscious self. (Depends on the person, the time to reprogram can be quick too) Remember, you can still manifest even in a not so positive mental mindset. You don't need to raise your vibrations. Whatever made up belief you have.. you make the rules. 👑

Hopefully anyone who sees this will get clarity. For all those Law of Assumption blogs, thank you so much for all the effort you put in. Your efforts are noticed and they have been really helpful, please don't forget to take care of yourself ❤