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🧊🧊 If you are Gemini/Virgo Venus you might remember very well the exact situation/moment you fell for your crush/love. Like it could be you were cycling together or their was a certain hand gesture or you were together withj friends and you just looked each other. But you being this sign, you might remember the very first moment vividly, but other memories will get cloudy with time.

🧊🧊 Only when you enter 8th house synastry you might start thinking about astrology. Like “oh so he’s a Sagittarius Sun, I’m Pisces Sun so are we compatible?” Before you might not think much about astrology, but after 8th house synastry you really will. You might also consult an astrologer on this connection.

🧊🧊 Why Sagittarius and Gemini Venus/Mars have such a bad reputation for being non committal and creating push and pull dynamic, is because they crave that “fresh love” energy. The moment you are too much in their head or they know too many things about you already, they will pull away.

🧊🧊 Check in which sign the Moon is currently. If it matches your Chiron, you’ll have pain in that part of body. For example: if Moon is currently in Virgo and you have Virgo Chiron, you will have a stomachache. If the Moon is in Gemini and you’re Gemini Chiron, your arm or hand or even fingers might hurt. Or you accidentally cut your fingers while cooking.

🧊🧊 Lilith square/opposition Pluto is really though. They probably really feared speaking up about what they want/need even though they are natural born leaders. They also hold back a lot of their needs just to restore peace in partnerships. They are afraid of being controlled though.

🧊🧊 Moon sextile Juno: you might marry or get in a long term partnership with a childhood love. Your mother could also meddle with your choice of partner😂. You might also have this belief that you will marry the person that you have known the longest.

🧊🧊 Mars square Juno: could give great relationship advice without being in a partnership! Females with this would be the girlboss archetype, they might often say they need no one.

🧊🧊 I’ve noticed Taurus Moons being the most consistently hard-working working people. I think this is also because they really crave that coin, because it brings them emotional stability and safety. They also are models most often or highly involved in fashion. Like Emma Chamberlain might not be a model, but she’s still involved in fashion and considered a fashion icon. Also Zendaya another Taurus Moon native. And Hailey Bieber.

🧊🧊 Sun in the 6th house native might see their father as their teacher!

🧊🧊 Correct me if I’m wrong, but Libra and Taurus Moon can’t go to the cinema without having company/a person with them.

🧊🧊 Aries Moon females really praise other women a lot! Also speaking about Aries Moons, I still can decode why they have really unique way of speaking. Every single person I came across that has Aries Moon has this thing with very personal and unique communicative/style of expression.

🧊🧊 A lot of Mercury retrograde natives finish the sentence (especially during a presentation) with “And that’s it.”🤣

🧊🧊 Ceres in the houses:

1st house: you adopt animals and people, you feed others, you share your problems and difficult periods.

2nd house: you give great monetary instructions, you inherited money, you buy other people clothing.

3rd house: you study nutrition, you encourage public speaking and people speaking up their mind/opinion, you add in-laws to your close inner family (so that you also share responsibilities with them), you really support other’s creative writings.

4th house: you introduce the idea of having pets in the home, you decorate your home with natural materials, plants, you take care of your and your spouse’s parents, you introduce new dietary patterns for your family.

5th house: you take care of children that have absent biological parents, you encourage child parent discussions/debates.

6th house: you encourage career stability, very protective as well.

7th house: you encourage romance, you hype other person’s talents and make them public for others to see, you’ll have more friends when in partnership/marriage, you also promote career advancement.

8th house: you love like a big sister/brother, you make hidden knowledge useable, you find comfort in loss/bereavement, you lend a shoulder to cry on.

9th house: you support and finance advanced education, you really really appreciate nature, you live by very simple moral code, you give concrete examples that others can follow.

10th house: you try to prevent tension and overwork.

11th house: you have either really younger or much older friends, you encourage others to use simpler type of entertainment, you like other feel needed, you support fulfilment of deepest desires.

12th house: you nurse hospitalised people, you give others vitamins, you accept occult/tarot/astrology concept as normal idea, you introduce drug/dietary changes in other people’s lives.

It’s very soft! It makes both parties tremendously forgiving of one another’s faults and adds this warm and tender air to the union that I think really allows both sides to be there honest and truest selves without backlash.

Sun in the 12th house synastry: It can add a huge level of depth as often the house person feels safe in the presence of the sun person like they can be goofy and playful and prideful without judgement mainly because the sun person represents the themes of their 12th house and gives them both the confidence and encouragement(subtle) to express that side! I think both sides can loose their sense of self in one another but in most cases it’s very sweet and very connected and these two are always alone together as if all they need were each other to have a good time! Both of them can act WAY different around one another than they normally would.

Moon in the 12th house synastry: THEY ADORE ONE ANOTHER! this is a huge intimacy placement as even more so than Neptune aspecting moon these natives literally see each other clear as day! They can sense one another’s feelings and one another’s fears, they can hurt when the other hurts and they can anticipate every vibration from one another like it was there own individual heart beat! Honestly this is a very gentle and loving house overlay be it friends, be it family, be it a lover! This person just knows you like the back of there hand and because of that the love the have for you is honest and pure due to it being love that is based on “what you are” not what they see you to be. Def the types to cry together and be very lovey dovey!

Mercury in the 12th house synastry: Very bubbly together! Mercury brings out so much youth in these natives! I’ve seen elderly couples with this overlay and the way they light up and beam when there lover comes around is so heart warming because even if they’ve changed, even if their loosing their minds or suffering from old age there whole bodies will glow at the sight of there lover! Often it shows a lot of mental and tender energy between the two! They have their puns, they have their incognito lango and they often speak in silly faces and smiles! It’s so deep and it’s a connection that runs deeper than words. These two speak to each other through energy and often that’s what makes them so deeply intertwined! Very protective of one another and I’ve seen this in those friends and lovers who don’t tolerate you talking over their buddy.

Venus in the 12th house synastry: This is something you have to experience as I can speak on it but words alone? Won’t do it justice. It’s a connection that is so sensualBut also so tender! It’s about letting go and also holding tightly with freedom and comfort! These two are usually deeply connected and often much of the affection and love they have for one another is instinctual as if they’ve met before and are just picking up where they left off! They know how to love and care for one another in a way that fits like a puzzle piece! They are tremendously gentle with one another and never overstep bounds set by the other but often I see that boundaries can often be blurry with these two! Romantically you can’t pry them off one another they just need each other and it can be a need so primal to them both. This is the couple that might act oblivious to one another in public but be so magnetically linked that they often crave one another.

🔥Venus and Ascendant aspects: Strong physical attraction in particular, even with the harder aspects, even though at times it can difficult. The sexual chemistry is strong af. They tend to idolise each other though, especially for Venus personally to the ascendant person. This of course is more mutual and harmonious with positive aspects(this includes conjunction).

🔥Mars aspecting Mars: The harsh aspects will be explosive to say the least, and likely impulsive and instantaneous even if they clash a lot. Harmonious aspects are still hot and heavy and cannot get enough of each other. There’s still strong desire for one another.

🔥Moon aspecting Mars: Mars desires the emotional qualities of the Moon and Moon is attracted to Mars energy and drive. Normally, the favourable aspects are better with this, including conjunction. This is also a major baby making aspect (obviously depending on other contributing aspects/factors).

🔥Venus aspecting Pluto: I LOVE the conjunction with this one and I know that’s an unpopular opinion but it’s sooo hot. Whilst it can get possessive and jealous, if you’re both mature enough people it won’t get unhealthy (imo). As much as I don’t have the conjunction, harsher aspects are more difficult to work with but the chemistry is unreal. You’re so attracted to each other regardless of the aspect. You’ll want to do each other anywhere and everywhere.

🔥Sun aspecting Mars: Again, even the harsh aspects create strong sexual energy between two people. Intense sexual attraction and with positive aspects your bodies seem to move in sync with each others naturally. Harsher aspects tend to be more rough but all aspects are hot and heavy.

🔥Sun aspecting Venus: I’d emphasise the positive aspects more on this one, maybe opposition too, but not always square. Because this is more the lovey-dovey, I wanna make love to you type of aspect. It’s gooey and romantic more than anything but the sexual tension is still intense.

🔥Venus aspecting Mars: this one is a classic and I think it can go a long way, even if the signs are not in the degree enough to make an aspect(for example a cancer Venus at 20° and Scorpio Mars at 10°). It can still be intense and both parties are attracted to each other. Squares are hot af in this aspect btw but tend to be complicated in the long run(again depending on other aspects).

🔥Mars aspecting Pluto: You’re instantly drawn to one another. They’re both fascinated with each other and can’t explain why. They can’t stay away from each other and the sex can get kinky👀 even with harsher aspects.

Vertex is a bit more complex to explain and personally, I believe it matters more in a Synastry chart than it does natally.

Vertex represents the unexpected, turn of events, lifechanging events or situations, something that can be like a "wow" moment. It can feel karmic in a way, because it can teach you a lot of lessons and feel like a plot twist in your life.

In synastry, the Vertex person is the one who "feels" the effects of the other person's planet or asteroid. I believe that conjunctions are the only ones that are truly felt and matter. Oppositions (meaning they conjunct your Anti-Vertex) are something I might explain in another post.

First, Vertex and the Houses in Synastry:

Vertex in the 1st House/Vx conjunct Ascendant. Vx person may feel more connected to themselves when meeting the house person, they may feel more self-aware, the relationship may feel like they were meant to meet and have the house person's presence in their life. Vertex in the 2nd house may show that through the relationship the Vx person will be provided with financial abundance, comfort, a physical relationship, confidence. Vertex in the 3rd House - communication, verbal connection they may have never expected to have with anyone, Vertex in the 4th house - the Vx person will be provided with an unepected home, family-like relationship, emotional security, Vertex in the 5th house is possibly one that shows a likely romantic connection as the Vx person will be provided with love, creativity through the relationship, a whirlwind romance, but also unexpected drama, they may question their ego and confidence due to the relationship, Vertex in the 6th house - the relationship may feel like an unexpected responsibility, it might be slightly draining, like the Vertex person has to care for the other person, Vertex in the 7th house/Vx conjunct Descendant can show that the relationship may bring an unexpected partnership between the two, but they can also be opponents, enemies, someone who will attack you surprisingly, Vertex in the 8th House can also be quite negative as it may show that the Vertex person may experience unexpected fears, worries, jealousy due to the relationship. It can also signify an unexpected sexual relationship or issues related with money experienced between the two people. Vertex in the 9th house - Vx person will be pushed into uncovering their true self, experiencing new events in their life with the help of the house person, you just grow in the ways you never thought you would in this relationship. Vertex in the 10th house can show an unexpected professional connection, you may help each other in your careers, Vx person may be provided with professional opportunities due to the house person, Vertex in the 11th house can show an unexpected friendship, a lot of support from someone you never thought would give it to you. The house person is the one that provides the Vx person with a lot of hope. Vertex in 12th house can also be quite negative. It can show an unexpected spiritual awakening for the Vx person due to the relationship, but it can also show self-doubt, fear, anxiety, you may feel pushed in the background due to this relationship.

Vertex and the planets in Synastry:

Vertex-Sun. Vx person will be provided with light, confidence, attention due to the relationship. They may feel like they are exchanging parts of themselves with the Sun person as in personality, likes/dislikes, charisma. The Sun person will have a lot of influence on the Vx person.

Vertex-Moon. Unexpected emotional connection and closeness. Vx person will be provided with emotional awareness, comfort, emotional security, nurture due to this relationship. But this may also bring some ups and downs due to the nature of the Moon.

Vertex-Mercury and Vertex-Jupiter. Both aspects may provide the Vx person with a lot of knowledge and information. Mercury person may provide the Vx person with a new mindset, new way of thinking, help them analyze their own self better. Jupiter person may provide the Vx person with confidence, wisdom, experience. The relationship will truly be something they will learn a lot from. Jupiter person will also provide them with the happiness they may not find anywhere else.

Vertex-Venus. This is one of the aspects that may signify a romantic connection. Venus person will provide Vx person with unexpected love, romantic attention, they will be the one who will love them, bring love into their life, it can be very sweet.

Vertex-Mars. Also a sign of a potential sexual relationship. It can be a connection that makes the Vx person find the strenght within themselves, helps them gain courage, take action. On the negative, Mars person may bring out unexpected chaos, tension, the relationship can be competitive and draining.

Vertex-Uranus. One of the biggest signs of a relationship filled with ups and downs, unexpected events, unusual circumstances. Vx person may feel like their life has changed when meeting the person, but it can be both positive and negative. It can be a relationship where there is no peace, there is always something happening, it can be unreliable, unstable.

Vertex-Neptune. Biggest indicator of a spiritual connection, spiritual awakening experienced by Vx person due to the relationship. But it can also feel unreliable, like you're living the relationship in a dream. Vertex-Pluto. Vx person may be influenced psychologically by the Pluto person. The relationship may help Vx person gain control of their life, but it can also be damaging, toxic, obsessive.

disclaimer: these are only my personal observations so please don’t think too much of it & remember the whole chart matters.

“dream of me”

usually you wonder if your s/o is thinking about you or if they dream of you like you do about them. this is very easy to tell in your synastry chart by looking at the 12th house. if you have placements in each other’s 12th house then you dream of each other for sure.

my notes on dreams you have of each other based on the placements:

💫 uranus - house person dreams of going on adventures with the neptune person and usually predicts what will happen to them both through their dream

💫 north node - this synastry overlay is ‘dangerous’ in a good way. it’s dangerous for the nn person because the house person usually dreams of nn person’s desires and sees their true feelings in their dream. for ex: if nn person has a crush on someone, the house person will dream of them with their crush

💫 venus - you probably expected something good from this one but usually the house person dreams of venus person’s fears and bad things happening to them together in the dream (has nightmares about venus person sometimes as well). and sometimes - house person even dreams of venus person betraying them.

💫 sun - this overlay does indicate dreaming of each other but the house person may not dream of sun person as much, and usually when they do dream of the sun person they have very unclear dreams they easily forget and every time sun person tries talking to them in their dreams they aren’t understandable enough

💫 mars - similar to sun in the 12th house, mars being here doesn’t indicate dreaming of one another often but once the house person does dream of the mars person it’s a very short dream that probably has a hidden message but the dream itself is usually very blurry and confusing.

💫 vertex - this is such a beautiful synastry overlay. house person has nice dreams of the vertex person and usually has a fun time in their dream with them. can dream of going to clubs together and things like that, but on the negative side can dream of vertex person ODing

continuing…

juno in 5H; the 5th house person can perceive the juno person as their perfect partner and might even think they have no flaws to them.

juno in 10H: juno person is probably in love way more than the house person in the beginning but as time passes by i noticed the house person gets way more attached and always talks about the future with the juno person. nice overlay since the house person feels like they don’t need anybody else but the juno person!!

psyche in 7H: these two always take one another’s advice and build trust very easily but psyche person may disagree with house person way more though. the house person admires how the psyche person handles people and probably always goes to them for support, whereas the psyche person admires house person’s understanding and passionate personality

neptune in 5H: these two don’t tend to meet one another’s needs as much because the neptune person is either too shy or too judgmental over house person’s needs.

— having personal planets in each other’s 6th or 8th house can feel like they are your first love even if they aren’t because this relationship manifests itself as the unforgettable one no matter what happened, if you break up or not.

saturn square eros: honestly, the eros person can feel suffocated in this relationship sometimes as it’s hard to let saturn person go because they force them to cherish life no matter what it throws at them but at the same time eros person deep down feels like the saturn person is either extremely jealous of them or doesn’t have good intentions towards them at all. at first saturn person may not feel something big about eros person since they may not be ‘that special’ to saturn person but over time saturn person develops this need for possessiveness and control over eros person and they may have a problem realizing what they desire about eros person so much when at first they didn’t anything special about them

pluto semi-sextile mercury: both individuals can meet each other’s needs sometimes but mercury person can be somewhat judgmental over pluto person because they want a whole different lifestyle than mercury person does.

stellium in the 11H: the stellium person on the positive side here - is most likely to have a crush on the house person especially while they’re friends but on the negative side the stellium person may only want a relationship with the house person for fun

their 10H ruler in your 10H: they will secretly be extremely jealous of you or feel like you’re stealing their spotlight and this easily causes them to humiliate you in front of others in public just to make themselves feel better.

— if you want to know if somebody secretly loves you watch out what house their stellium falls in in your chart or what planet, because usually if they have many placements in your 5th house then they for sure love you in one way or the other but if love is a strong word for this then there’s something they definitely do admire about you!

their moon in your 5th house makes them become attached to you very easily and was probably the first one to make a move.

their mercury in your 5th house makes them think of you a lot wether they do or do not like you, so don’t be bothered by any negative comments they try to make about you since there’s a lot about you they ‘love’

if their venus falls into your 5th house then they definitely do love you a little and possibly can have a crush on you because your personality is “perfectly unique” to them..

what they find sexually attractive about you…

i noticed that depending on where the ruler of their mars sign falls in your chart it can tell you what they find sexually attractive about you.

ex; let’s say they have a cancer mars, cancer is ruled by the moon and they’re a taurus moon and they’re a capricorn rising - meaning their taurus moon falls into your 5th house. this makes them admire you in general and they have sexual fantasies about you often

ex 2; let’s say they have a libra mars, libra is ruled by venus and they’re a scorpio venus whereas you’re a cancer rising - meaning their scorpio venus falls into your 5th house. this makes them love how you “put yourself out there” and you can drive them ‘insane’ by how attractive you are

[last example]

ex 3; let’s say they’re a gemini mars, gemini is ruled by mercury and they’re a taurus mercury and you’re a libra rising. this makes their taurus mercury fall into your 8th house and automatically makes them think you have a strong sexual connection together because of how good you treat them in bed or because of how sexy you always look to them.

Yixing: chuu~~

on the day of exo-l’s 2nd anniversary one of our so called exo-l’s decided to removie yixing from the photo chanyeol took : 

now I don’t care if your an ot8 stan but it’s horrible to erase someone from a photo, especially on such a special day.