haiiii i'm harley, you can call me that or harls or any sorta variation of my name i don't really have a pref :)
i'm a 21 year old trans dude, i say trans man/guy cuz that's kind of the best descriptor but tbh all's bendy on the gender front. 90% man from my mom's side kind of situation.
i use he/him pronouns, and i have for years, but a bit ago i "revoked" the they pronoun cuz i had an issue with some irls defaulting to that over the he. like i might be a he him his and then sometimes occasionally they with other trans ppl if that makes sense :3
i'm queer slash prolly just gay but lowkey i don't think about that too much nor do i care to. i know what i like and that is what matters
i am not an otherkin, therian, or anything like that. tbh i don't know a whole lot about that but i'd like to learn! i just really appreciate nature and i think because of my weird relationship with gender and my own mental health i relate to the carnal feelings of wolves. does that resonate with anyone?
as for the furry thing i think i've been on the outskirts always a little curious for many years now. maybe in the future when i have more money and time i might explore that, but for now i don't consider myself a furry.
all in all, i'm just here to see cool wolf posts and compare my gender to being a wolf. awoooo
thanks for reading if you've made it this far! some last minute facts:
i'm a psych student -> i want to be a therapist!
i think fall is my favorite season (i'm a libra)
i love nature/natural state of things -> so obviously wolves, but also space! i find it so neat :D
i'm american
i love cosplaying and going to conventions
i take ao3 very seriously. i do not play about fanfiction
i'm religiously ambiguous. i have so many complicated feelings and avoidance is my favorite thing to do so lowkey idk where i stand on that. not my problem right now haha
i may use this account for venting but i'll tag it accordingly #prommy
that's all for now! i'm a really anxious person who sometimes words things weird so i apologize in advance if my curiosity on wolf-based identities comes off poorly. i just want to learn! i don't really have a plan to make friends or anything on here, i just want an outlet that isn't my main tumblr to post to my wolf's content. hope to see ya around!
i'll update this as i use them -> but here's some tags i may use:
#harleyhowls -> any post where i'm just kinda just talking. could be venting, yapping, whatever. like i said above i'll tag accordingly
#wolfposting -> any post related to feeling like a wolf. that's it
#gendergrowls -> any post related to my gender. i have a lot of feelings about it
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so i made it back to my parent's house for summer and immediately was hit with some bullshit... because of course
my mom and i were in the car and the conversation of her feeling as though i am a lot more carefree at school came to fruition (because of what i post on instagram and the few times they visit for brief intervals). i was like "yeah, y'know i don't really like the person i become when i am back from college. i feel like my 16 year old self and not in a good way."
and of course she responded back, nonchalantly while staring ahead at the road, "yeah your dad and i don't like that version of yourself. i'd much rather be around your current self"
which... ouch! cuz like, that's the only version of me my parents really know lmfao. i kinda get her point, but i don't think she knows that being in their house and being around them brings out a very angry, upset, juvenile version of myself that i'd like to think i've worked on healing.
i don't hate 16 year old me. he was very angry for both good and bad reasons. i just don't like seeing his mom and dad admit that they don't like him. i am him, just a little more grown up. he doesn't deserve to be spoken about like that.
