I'm a luxury.

Decided to make this because my skincare changes a bit in the summer.

Layer skincare. Since it’s hot you probably don’t want to put on a lot of moisturizer. Cleanse, apply a hydrating toner or face mist, then apply a bit of your moisturizer.

You could also apply essence after toner/ face mist for lightweight hydration and glow then go in with a bit of moisturizer.

Wear sunscreen

If you have to, skip moisturizer then go straight to sunscreen.

Use a brightening cleanser or cleanser that evens your skin tone. I do this even though I wear sunscreen just to keep my skintone even.

Use a gel cleanser, you don’t have to do this but it’s refreshing to keep one around. Throughout the week I switch off between my brightening cleanser and this.

Use a clay /mud mask weekly, you’ll find you’ll need it more during this time because of sweating, wearing sunscreen, etc.

God‘s punishment for eating the apple was that ADAM had to work to earn his living. It was not Eves punishment! Her punishment was just bleeding and having pain while giving birth. We are already enduring God‘s punishment but men who want to put responsibility on our backs try to share their punishment with us and thus making it easier for themselves and way harder for us.

So whenever you think that you might not deserve to live without lifting a finger or working, think about God‘s will. If we want to be successful in this lifestyle we have to believe with all of our heart and subconscious mind that we deserve to be kept and fully provided for.

Too many people these days making us feel bad by saying things like “you didn’t work for it”, “you didn’t deserve it”, “you’re lazy”, you are a leech” etc.

You can say to them that they can choose to believe what the modern world has made up but you believe what god has intended for men and women!

If they say it is not possible to live on one income anymore (“muh economy!”) you say that this is the reason you only date wealthy men. Being a “gold digger” is basically the only way to live godly these days.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk!

If you are new… Why not try dating a wealthy man first as a kept woman or spoiled girlfriend before jumping into SB … 

You can start with bumble and dating apps and check out CEOs … But be very vigilant… People lie… Make sure they check out and put yourself as someone who only date men who can take you places in your career, romantically and adventure wise.

I know a lot of people frown on Sugar baby websites… But, I have heard my sponsor’s friends (All whales) Talk about being on the site and checking out it from time to time… So you, could get lucky

I am not sure where you are located… But look for the most luxurious and expensive part of where you are and do activities there… If you are in a small town but have big city around you… Find a way to take yourself there as often as you can (An investment you have to make) And again, frequent high-end places.

Shopping: I know i said, do not waste all your money on designer trying to keep up. However, instead of finding yourself in women’s designer shops… And i mean real designers not half way shit…  Find your way to men’s. One you will either meet a wealthy man yourself, or two you will meet an assistant buying for a wealthy man (befriend them ) or 3  befriend the stylist/workers in that shop…  (I have seen this happen )

And like I said… the best place to start is Groom yourself… Dress like you belong… Even if you are dressed down and casual, you should have an aura of Money.  Then read, read, read… Get informed as much as you can. it certainly helps in creating chemistry beyond sexual high with the man

I know people here advocate to Lie… And 99% of the time… You should.  Depending…

You can lie about your name (Depending on where, how you meet them and what you intend the relationship to be like). 

In my case, i tend to meet people who i meet through work or out in my daily life… So i don’t have the need to lie . If i met them on a website i will lie about my name

Work: If you have a shitty low job…. Then try to improvise with how you present it… I think your lies should be close to the truth that if things get serious you can wiggle out of it…. But if not, they still wont be able to find you. 

Example: If you are an online English Teacher to kids in Asia… Say you are a a personal tutor to a wealthy family (insert a wealthy part of town )….  Don’t give your company name

If you work in McDonald (I understand you are mostly the person in need of financial help… But if you are looking for a whale. My suggestions will be, try and find a better position before going at this. Maybe cocktail waitress or waitress at restaurants ). But if you haven’t and are working towards it… Say you are a cocktail waitress around (insert area with very high end restaurants of lounges,etc)

Or you can say you are a fashion student…. Something that makes you look like you are around wealth or plan on being around one.

Clothing: People carry fakes… If you are okay with that… then do you… But while the average man might not notice… Even some whales… (These men have been around wealth for so long… Luxury has a different freshness to it)… Make sure your things even if they are not designers always look new.

Word of caution… Some men will think you are either lying or stupid if you are a cocktail waitress wearing a chanel bag.  My suggestion is to look luxurious but have them guessing if it is designer or not. That way you are hard to categorize, yet they still treat you how you want to be treated.

Tell them truths about you that will make you seem genuine… But not truths that can be used against you and used to find you. Everything doesn’t have to be a lie.

Challenge Yourself: know that anything you want to achieve, you’re worth the time and effort that goes into it. Challenging yourself and setting new goals builds self confidence

Be in competition w/ you and no one else: don’t compare yourself to others, for you do not know their path or their desired destination. You’re unique because you’re you and no one else has your lives experiences or exact perspective.

Do what you say you’re going to do: not just for other but for yourself. If you promise yourself something, if you tell yourself you’re going to do something, do it. Not only will you be more productive, but you won’t feel the need to wallow in self loathing over something you said you were going to do and never got to

Value your time: for this is indeed valuing yourself. It’s okay to relax and lay around and do absolutely nothing sometimes, but dedicating your time to nothing is dedicating yourself to nothing. Value yourself enough to put your tile to good use

Anticipate the future: try your best to look out for your future self, even in the smallest ways. From picking something up off the floor so that you don’t trip on it tomorrow to keeping a pack of makeup wipes beside your bed for those lazy days

I thought this would be fun to list the products I use and personally love. Especially when these damn stores open up again.

Perfumes🎀

Lancôme idole! I swear by this perfume when I say, this is worth the money! Two to three sprits and you’re good to go. I’ve had men and women complement my scent the most when I wear this perfume. Its a very clean scent with hints of jasmine & rose. It can also be refilled as well.

Muglar Aura! If you’re that type women that loves a more dark, musky smell but still want to smell feminine as hell, add this beauty to your shopping list. My lord, when I tell you this scent is sexy. The amount of times I’ve walked past people or even stood in their presence, the double takes are priceless. It can also be refilled.

Mugler Angel Muse! You’re a sweet & soft women? 🌸 Say no more. This is a sweet scented perfume but it doesn’t smell cheap. It has small hints of chocolate. It’s sounds weird but scent is so addictive and somewhat clean & slightly warm. It’s a very inviting smell. I can’t get enough of it. This is definitely perfect for spring/summer. It’s refillable too!

Eden Perfume! This is a very inexpensive perfume but it does not smell like one. I discovered this gem when i was shopping at my local Boots. I was really attractived to the shape of the bottle so i gave it a smell and that was how my relationship with this perfume began. The only way I explain the scent; imagine if Gucci and Chanel gave birth to a perfume-🥺 That’s my best description. It’s a very luxury scent. I spray this on after a shower or bath.

Deodorant🌸

There’s only one I’ve been using notoriously, Mitchum! I use the Fresh Power scent. I’m all about clean scents. This beauty doesn’t leave white marks and it’s really gentle on the skin. This is my secret weapon for when I wear open blouses or spaghetti vests/dresses.

Lotion🧴✨

Sleepy by Lush! It’s said that this lavender infused lotion is best used before bed to defeat insomnia but I use this product every god damn day. It’s so hydrating and it gives my brown skin that goddess glow! The smell! Oop! Quick fact; did you know lavender was just one of the scents that attract men? 👸🏿

Lipcare👄✨

I know. What does lipcare have to do with smelling good? Well, the lip balm I use smells like cherries. It’s from Glossier. And I kid-you-not, when I slap this on, people pick up the sweet cherry scent. Plus, if you have another half💗, they’ll love it!

Hand cream🤲🏿🧴✨

Aesop! I use the Rind Concentrate Body Balm because London winter seasons are not kind. It has an orange citrus scent. I get a lot of complements on this cream. Who knew a lot people loved the smell of oranges??

I might do more of these. This was very therapeutic to list. I hope this helps some of you. If anyone has any recommendations, please reblog and add to this.🥺💗 Let me learn your tips and tricks!

Women are a security blanket for men. If you’re dating him while he’s broke in hopes that one day he won’t be....news flash sis you’ll die, go to hell and come back three times before you ever see the day.

Good evening from London! How are my spoiled💸Sugar Queens doing? I hope we’re all surviving, especially with all this social distancing.

I wanted to drop down a few videos i watched during my lunch. These videos are very beneficial for women that want to go down the Spoiled Girlfriend route.