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how does instagram know to suggest i follow the random couple i hooked up with the singular weekend i spent in cananda and met at a bar and don’t have their last name or contact info????

I am once again uncontrollably attracted to a new roommate :( why do I always do this!!!!!!!!! this is the THIRD TIME! she’s the perfect effortlessly masculine gay vibes woman I’ve been looking for!!!!! we just spent over an hour sitting in our dark empty not yet furnished living room talking about our plans to play with a ouija board and she was teasing me about how I have to believe for it to work and then talking about starting a cult and just silly stuff cracking up and it was so flirty and she looked so good tonight and like i swear I’m already counting down the end of the lease when it’ll be okay for us to hook up and i also hope she’s cool w the fact that I purely coincidentally already had a thing with her like best friend LMAO

i’m always the first person people call when their relationship ends 😂 and babe I am always here

i swear all women have a specific skill of making men (or women if you’re queer) do whatever you wanted them to do from WHAT YOU POST ON INSTA. That tweet that said “women’s version of sliding into DMs is posting a pic” is so freaking true. I need to schedule a dick appointment as part of a long-term plan with this really hot guy but I didn’t wanna just text him so I was like I’ll post THIS EXACT PIC to make him text me and ask to hang out. And bitch 9 seconds after that pic is posted he’s the first to like it and immediately texts me. I’ve always done this with men and women in my circle of dating and it’s so funny how well it works, like to make someone jealous, to make someone ask to hang out, to make someone curious, to remind someone of you who you haven’t spoken to in a while. So fun

I’m facetiming with my sister out of nowhere while I’m wasted because she’s freaking out driving around after having a big fight with her bf and then her bfs dad had to go to the hospital so she has to be there but is also mad at him and trying to set boundaries and also not allowed in the hospital w him cause of covid so she’s yelling and driving around looking for cigarettes and a place to pee and this is so chaotic bc it’s hard to be there for her while I’m super drunk :( i’m so glad I’m single and only have relationships with men for money

You know one thing I don’t like in the sex work world? I don’t like when some of YOU decide to go out of your way to gatekeep. I believe in paying sex workers for their advice and guidance about starting sex work, and I believe that there’s some things that girls won’t learn until they do it. And I think a lot of girls asking for advice are clueless and not serious. BUT I’ve seen some of you online saying shit like “I learned what I know through trial and error and I’ve been in a lot of dangerous situations and bad experiences before I learned so I don’t like when women expect to just be told the things I had to suffer to learn myself” like are you for real?? You’re withholding information that you pained and suffered for, including information about staying safe and avoiding DANGER, just because you WANT other new girls to have to do that too? To possibly have horrible things happen to them? I personally don’t mind giving advice out. I often will do it for free, though I think girls should sometimes expect to be charged. And I especially would never tell a girl off for asking for advice specifically because I WANT her to have to go in blind specifically about danger and possibly get hurt. If you are wanting girls to suffer and shit just because YOU had to then there’s something wrong with you. If you don’t like giving advice in general that’s fine but why are some of you speaking out unnecessarily just to tell everyone that you’re bitter that girls are entering sex work without enough pain and suffering and danger and assault? I don’t want any woman to go through any of the pain I’ve gone through in my life in general if I can help it.

anyways. to get back to sex work posting. Is anyone else really in a funk? I have this daddy who works the night shift and normally I’d make sure I talk to him at a time we’re both up and stuff but lately I’ve just been like unable to bring myself to text him in a timely fashion because I’m so rarely in the mood to deal w it. I used to just talk to men whenever even when I’m not in the mood ofc but lately I’m like, absolutely not. Im in bed/drinking wine/watching a show/tired/just ate 7 lbs of food/in my not sexy pajamas and it’s just not happening. AND I’ve found that big requests from online customers almost cause an energy hit. Like, a guy asked if I was available to talk on the phone and I was like yeah not only am I not available to talk on the phone cause I’m in bed and shit but I also think that sounds like the last thing I’d ever wanna do now that you mention it. Online sex work is possibly not even my thing anymore after all these years. I can’t wait for a vaccine! Gotta start dating older rich men irl again.

but still I’ve decided to never let a man get comfortable with me again. fwb comes over last night and guys I still have bruises and bite marks from the last time and then this time.....what did he do? nothing. Came in 3 mins. And I WAS ON TOP THE WHOLE TIME ugh....I’ve always done this thing where I tell men it’s totally fine to cum quick, I like it, it’s hot etc because it makes them more comfortable and they pay you back heavy later instead of being all whiny and self conscious but maybe it’s time to start shaming them again because this man had the audacity to just leave it at that

every person I’ve had sex with (which is a lot) man or woman tells me I’m the best sex they’ve ever had, that I’ve ruined kissing/sex with other people for them, they compare me to long term ex partners and shit. I also get told “i love you” in the middle of sex a lot. I just can’t believe my power and I wanna be young forever

I’m reading creepy pastas all alone at home and I’m so spooked :( but I can’t stop

thinking bout the time a girl I hooked up with was leaving my apartment in the morning and she ran into the man I had invited over for sex at the door bc I didn’t leave enough overlap time and I did not apologize to either of them

quarantining for so long has me feeling kinda weird about returning to sex work when it’s over. It’s been so nice being totally isolated cause I’m such an extreme introvert and now when things eventually get better I’m gonna have to use energy on men again 🙄 honestly being alone also has made me super horny so I’m gonna have to do some quick hooking up with normal young guys and gals before getting back in the older man saddle. Also online sex work bores me I’m not even trying to keep up with it anymore so I guess it’s gonna also be good when I can do it irl again