Self Improvement Heaux

What it isn't

Being tipped or gifted with the expectation of better service or better treatment (entitlement to more time outside of work)

A client paying for multihour dates. Just because he is booking you longer than the 1hr guy, doesn't make him more generous. He is paying for more of your time, which means more work for you. Same with a fan buying all your content. These people also aren't "supporting" you. They're seeking a service.

A client/man paying for dinner. That's expected of them lol. This still falls under bare minimum. Esp since he pays for dinner w expectation of fucking you (civie). The client/man is courting you. Paying for dinner is part of the deal.

A client who leaves early and says you can keep the donation for the rest of the time he paid for. You thought I was going to give that back to you?

A client who cancels but says "you can keep the deposit". No shit I'm keeping it, it's non-refundable mf.

A client who respects your boundaries isn't generosity or over-the-top kindness. Again, bare minimum. That's what he is supposed to do as a decent human being.

What Generosity is:

Big tip with no expectation of anything (more time, better service, etc) in return

Financially supports your side hustles, investments, business w no expectation of anything in return

Pays your bills on top of paying for your time

Randomly sends you money or e-gift cards