your personal traumas can change what you're into sexually, and it can be healthy to mentally recreate that to take power back for yourself at times. however putting a sexualized/romanticized version of your trauma out on the internet uncritically in an open space will attract and give sexually gratifying material to the same kind of person that hurt you, as well as likely perpetuate the cycle of new victims being created, but i don't think proshitters are ready for that conversation
also crazy concept to some buffoons out there:
Believing Queer people are made because of trauma, and therefore 'problematic content' (ie being a pedo or something) is part of being queer, is feeding two very harmful narratives. One being it's a choice to be Queer. Two being people who are queer are vile scum and mentally diseased.
but the deeply uncomfortable queer youths are the problem i guess
i was a victim of the community for years as a kid and everything here. everything you said is right. you’re literally the most correct person ever oh my god. thank you. i was nearly endangered in real life by a grown adult (i was a minor during the whole duration) because of the community. keep being correct about everything homeslice. keep speaking up because you’re so right and people need to talk about this more. tysm


















