Hi there Anon. 

The structure of DD/lg for me is pretty much the same as any of the other dynamics. Rules, tasks, rewards and punishments are needed to help you care for your little one and see that she evolves the ways you wish her to. 

Three Types of Rules For Littles

1. Rules That Establish Dominance and encourage Deeper Submission and Intimacy:

These are the fun rules, and the ones that reinforce who is boss. Asking for permission to cum and letting Daddy pick out your panties each day are good examples.

2. Rules That Guide Health:

These help with physical and mental health. Eating breakfast each day, a required walk, journal writing, and required self play (good for burning calories and raising endorphins) are good examples.

3. Rules That Help With Goals:

These help make her that very best version of herself that she wants to be. Keeping her room tidy, working toward healthy eating habits, putting away money in the bank each week, and required time for studying are good examples.

Tasks

Let the subjective rules you create for your specific little girl guide your tasks. If you have a rule that states that the Princess must have a clean room at all times, broken down individual tasks that keep her on track to achieve that goal weekly should be created. If the rule is that she is to achieve certain grades in her college courses, tasks should be created to make sure she sets aside time for homework and studying. 

Rewards and Punishments

When she is keeping within the rules, and getting her tasks done in a satisfactory manner, rewarding her to reinforce her hard work and good behavior should be given. For littles this can be things like stickers daily, or buying her a new stuffy at the end of a prolonged period of good behavior. Rewards should be anything your little one gets excited about. Don’t forget that the biggest reward you can give her is your own voiced positive feedback. Nothing goes further than telling her she is being “a good girl”. 

When rules are broken it is important that punishment is doled out to help correct the behavior. Punishments should fit the crime as best as you can, and should be things your submissive does not enjoy. Spankings are often mistaken as suitable punishments for masochistic little girls. This only encourages your submissive to act out to receive them, and does not serve to correct bad behavior. Ignoring your little girl should NEVER be used as a punishment. 

There is your basic structure Anon. Beyond that, encourage and foster her little side. The more safe and secure she feels under your dominant watch, the more she will be able to let go of her day to day and find and explore being little and enjoying littlespace. 

Feel free to come to me (or us) as things come up that you want advice with. There are a lot of experienced Dominants here on kinky Tumblr who are happy to help younger and new dominants find their way. Never feel like you’re in over your head, and can’t get help. Best of luck to both of you. 

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