vas' selfship blog

yet-to-become platonic f/os who want to be your friend so bad. internally smiling when they get to see you and talk to you thanks to random coincidences. their day getting better because they believe they are a step closer to becoming your friend and they can't wait to show you their favourite places and nap together after long conversations.

or maybe it's the other way around, your heart feeling so full when they agree to hang out for the first time. and if you happened to mention it after becoming friends, your f/o will laugh with the biggest smile because of how appreciated they always feel by your side.

Your f/o reminding you to take breaks from whatever it is you're doing and to get up or sit up and do some stretches to move your limbs.

your f/o reminding you to take your meds if you have them.

Your f/o reminding you to drink some water commenting that they don't want to see you like a dried up like a jellyfish in the sun to make you laugh or even just breath a bit of air out your nose in amusement.

Your f/o helping you with basic needs if you aren't able to do it yourself like brushing your hair or helping you bathe/shower or getting dressed.

Your f/o helping you remember appointments/events you have going on in your life even if its a simple reminder like "buy more butter"

Your f/o reminding you that despite whatever is going on in your life that you're never a bother or a burden to them and that they're happy to be with you.

Just imagine your f/o treating you with care and that they do these things because no, they don't feel like they're stuck and have to do it, they do these things because they love and care about you with their entire heart and soul.

Verbally teasing you, poking your nose and cheeks or ruffling your hair! It makes you perhaps just visibly peeved or pout. Oh you are so mad at them that you turn away and do not want to see them for a while! You're so mad, aren't you!?

Nah, that's a lie you want to tell yourself. Because can you stay mad at your f/o for long? Probably not… As long as it is just all playful and fun you just can't. So a few minutes later you might turn back around and cuddle them, needy for their attention. You didn't mean it and want to let them know by not letting go for a while.

(Or if you are the one teasing your f/o, imagine that your f/o is ‘mad’ at you for teasing them a little too much. That works too of course!)

hey, its getting late.

how about you start thinking about heading to bed? you deserve the rest. if you need to stay up a little longer, just make sure its not too late okay?

ily. night night sleep tight.

- f/o <3

Imagine your f/o flinging their arm out in a protective stance in front of you, carefully pushing you behind them and out of harm's way with the same arm

You are allowed to think your f/o would love who you are. Whether it's canon or not, etc. You are always enough for them.